Perhaps, but I know how some people are. I stick up for people, that's how I am. They obviously didn't confront you with your behavior, but like I said, I got a pm about someone who actually was happy with me for saying that. I honestly don't believe you are a mean guy or anything, just wording your self unfortunate(?) on certain moments, and I think you can change that.
Seriously? You call me a snob while you act like you are the 'better' and 'right' one all the time? I don't look down on people, I only look up to people who deserve it. You shouldn't only be 'nice' when people get to know you. That's the wrong additude. Just treat everyone on this forum with respect, 'internet' or not. If anyone is a snob here, it would be you.
If that's your definition of calm, then I am curious to when you aren't calm. I actually just got a PM of someone agreeing with me as well. Listen, I am not attacking you or anything, but I just notice that a lot of your posts seem to be pretty aggressive. Whether you are aware of it or not, just reread your posts before you post it. No one likes to be yelled at, especially when they didn't deserve it.
Are some of your reactions really necessarily? It kind of makes you look like a prick. Seriously, you can make your point clear without whining/sarcasm or insulting. It doesn't make you look 'cool' or anything. Just stop.
In case you're still lost about why Lenora being looked upon as a "mammy" is bad for GF: http://www.ferris.edu/jimcrow/mammies/
^^ I'm going to just assume you haven't ever seen this kind of racism because we live in a better world than we used to...