I know how you feel. I have Asperger's too. I too have had to deal with friends abandoning me. One of the worst cases was 2 years ago, when a girl from Oklahoma, who I had thought of as my unofficial little sister, suddenly abandoned me. It's worse because I am the youngest of two children in my family, my mother never bothered to have any more after me so I don't have anyone to look up to me, and I kind of resent her for that, along with the fact that she left my father and moved out of me and my father's house last year. As well, because of my friend abandoning me I've shown a general distrust of Oklahomans, and root against Oklahoma sports teams whenever I can.
Watch the Battle Frontier series and the 8th movie again; TPCI pronounced Bonsly correctly as Bon-sly, it's 4kids who pronounced it wrong as Bon-slee, you got it completely the wrong way round. Heck, Bill Rogers, the TPCI voice actor for Brock, when he was a member of the Serebii forums explained why TPCI's pronunciation of Bonsly was the right one and that it was a "sly bonsai tree"