anyway, don't join the chat from the serebii website itself. if you don't have an external client like mirc or something you can use purplesurge.com and type the commands /j spp and /j misc to join the chat(s)
so skiyomi rated my sig 1/10. i sent her a VM regarding signature philosophies and ad dicto secundum quid ad dictum simpliciter. So she deletes my VM, we both know she doesn't want to/can't answer and is now using the "you don't like my opinion i don't like your opinion" card.