Just so you know, the way the visitor message system works is that you have to click "view conversation" on the person's last message to you, then type in the message at the top bar.

You're posting messages on your own wall.
You even got close to seeing a Springsteen show? Graugghhhh! Jealous. So very jealous. Eh, Pearl Jam's an alright band- not my type of hype, though.