It's relative Ludwig. To the life I have lived, all 46 years, you are but a child. Sweden has some lax child labor laws because no 16 year old can do factory work here. Teenagers and adults make bothersome noise also, but that doesn't make me not want to have friends. As I said you haven't had to raise a child, from the sound of it you are not meant to be a dad, because frankly if the noise is a bother to you the changing of diapers and puke cloths is definitely not for you.