Oh if you clicked 'see more' on a conversation of his(that it seems was between me and him most likely) then it doesn't always go to the person your wantings profile. it's weird, guess it just chooses randomly idk >.<
and it's ok :3
You'll have to get with Cryuel about activity and if you'll be able to battle using ORAS for Gym Battles on January 1st, or sometimes around that month.