Yeah. I'm 31 w/ a now handicapped g/f. I can battle still, but leading a clan is out for me. Just not enough time. Besides, 7DS was #1 in the clans section (by fluke of other clans breaking up). I had success on this forum with 7DS, and all the members. I'm not trying to do it again though. I still have fun being in clans though.
Congrats on getting married. I hope it works for you.