Alpha I give your Gran profs for accepting the age difference between you and your boyfriend. Twenty years is a lot of life between you and he. I honestly admit I would need some time to digest that difference. It would equal my daughter dating one of my class mates. I'd get used to it, and even accept it if I saw the love was two way. But it would take some getting used to. So hats off to your Gran! *two thumbs up*