As for the girl, she wouldn't have a case that easy. It would have to be some pretty serious emotional abuse for her to have a case. Not to invalidate your view, but it kind of seems to me like your Asberger's, just, that you tend to see things in extremes. I hope that's not offensive... Well, it's just what I think.
Anyway, I was just about to go to bed. Rule of thumb, I hit the sack about 12, 12:30. Weekends are going to be the best time for me. I'll talk to you later, ok?