I assume you're wondering the result between me and Siobhan? Well, a few months ago (the end of September, to be exact) i'd been trying the last few months to build summat between us, and i put a sweet/romantic status on Facebook which was aimed at her, and i set it so that only she could see it (i specified that as well) and she saw it and sent me a message which was basically what i've feared the whole time and practically knew was coming, i was just in denial - she told me she liked the status, she said i'm so kind and a really nice guy, but she doesn't want me chasing after her. She doesn't want a boyfriend, she thinks life is a hell of a lot easier without one. She calmly said that if i keep trying with her then i'm just gonna get hurt all the more. I spoke to her on chat for a bit, we sorted a few things out... i just left knowing what had been staring me in the face the whole time and i just tried to avoid seeing it. Seriously, that girl apparently NEVER wants a relationship again, she actually said if Johnny Depp asked her out she'd say no. She claims she's picky as hell when it comes to love and she's being stationary until she meets her "one". But the thing is... her idea of "the one" she's meant to be with, if you get me, is pretty out there... she expects some kind of really romantic dream-ish guy, the sort you see in romantic films... but let's be honest, those guys are either non-existant or come along for like 2 seconds in a lifetime. This gonna sound stupid, but it's the truth - all these romantic films and (VERY graphic) romance novels she reads have completely f*cked up her expectations of men. Besides, she's since stated that she's "staying single for the rest of her life and nothing's gonna change that"... i REALLY don't see how she can make that decision considering she's not had much experience in the field... but hey, i'm not one to judge. If it makes her happy, i'm happy for her.