my brothers 20,money is important no matter how much you dont want it to be,if i did not have to work i would love it,i never thought i would have a family,im 23 now and i have a 19month old daughter and i couldnt be happier,it can be stressful at times looking after the house and my daughter ,paying the bills and forcing myself to go to work.like i said you need to enjoy what you have and try to be happy,u never know you may have a family one day even though its not what you want,there is someone out there for everyone believe me