I've come to see dating among young folks as a time to find what you are really looking for. For instance my daughters 1st & 2nd boyfriends where possessive attention *****s. So she pined for a boy who'd give her her space. She got him and realized she wanted some attention! Then she met "a looker" he was one of the everybody's friend guys, a real charmer. I knew his type, but he was a very pale comparison to my friend. SHe tired of his "everyone, look at me' routine.
Now she's been dating her present boyfriend for about a year, he's not "Hansom", he's not rich, but he respects her, and shows how much he cares for her. I'm interested in where the relationship goes cause he is a good "kid" in my eyes, including his being bisexual.