Girl, you're totally fine, because I know exactly how you feel. I'm gender-neutral, and I blame my loss of feminine-ness because most, if not all, of my closest friends, and the friends I hang out with, are guys. Because I can't stand most girls. (Most of my opinions are probably offensive, so I pay no mind to the offensiveness of other peoples opinions.)
Most highschool teams are like that. It's a "sometimes we good, sometimes we not" kind of thing. I think we have a golf team.. or at least, we did, I think it dissolved because people stopped caring. (At our school, however... drama and choir are the good things. All of our choirs are super freaking good, and our drama team is even better.)
We have been gone for a while... but all that is in the past. WE ARE BACK!