Fortunately, if someone is on your friend list, you will see on your profile whenever they post somewhere, whether it be in a VM or a thread. That's how I got your first messages even though you posted on your own profile :3
[Speaking of friends list, if you don't mind me asking, it seems you have fewer people on it. Have you unfriended anyone recently?]
[Speaking of friends list, if you don't mind me asking, it seems you have fewer people on it. Have you unfriended anyone recently?]