Hmm. Well, After I reply to Psychic, whom I believe to be the only one here who really understands that a debate shouldn't be a circular "You're wrong, I'm right" discussion, I'm out, as that is exactly what this has become.
Men CAN "become pregnant" in a way. There are pills and all such that allow them to experience the same things that a pregnant woman does, including weights. Now, I'm not saying that every man will or even should do this, but it is possible and in this way, a man can truly understand what the woman is going through. And childbirth is, contrary to popular belief, not the most intense pain one can sustain. Pain can be intense enough to kill. Most women nowadays do not die of the PAIN from childbirth, it's usually blood loss and other complications. I myself cannot empathize with this pain, as I have always suffered from a mild condition that somewhat impedes my nervous system. This slightly hinders my ability to feel cold, heat, and pain, among other things like a slight loss of taste, as the signals are interrupted.
Now, my response is fairly simple. Psychic, I never said that any of the things mentioned should impact your decision, only that, for some, they do.
It's true that the right to life does not discriminate, but you cannot say that the ones choosing whether to grant or not to do so do not. Every living being is judgmental. That never falters. The right to life does not and cannot choose to kill or save, that is up to the potential savior. And this person may discriminate if they believe that the baby is evil from the start versus good.
Me personally? Yes, I would choose to save the man/woman.child. That is impaired by my condition, as I would not have to suffer quite as much as average, but my decision stands. There is one thing, however. Pregnant women are not bed-ridden during the entire pregnancy. Therefore, I would encourage you to be a little more realistic. As in, extremely nauseous, bloated and all such for nine months, with about a total of 3-6 weeks in bed.
While it's true that regret exists in all parts of our lives, there are very few forms of it that are as big as life and death matters. Your friend (unless they are very stubborn and self-conscious) will forgive you, that loan will not kill you and you can pay it off (unless it's from the mafia) later. However, there is no way to "go back" on this decision. You cannot rectify it if you decide to change your mind later on. The baby is dead. Yes, you can have another, but my mother had a bay (it would have been my elder by one year) die in the womb at four months, and while she had me later, she has admitted to me that she wonders to this day what that baby would have been like, and what it would have done with its life.
And, though I'm atheist, I can see where you are coming from. However, Eve was biased towards the fruit by Lucifer. Had that snake not interfered, she may have made a different choice.
I never said that the parents had to see the children, only that they could if they wanted to. I have adopted cousins, and while I have no idea whether their parents wish to see them(they are not related, by the way), I know that my cousins long to know them. In this way, I know that adoptions are not perfect, but it offers the baby life, at the least.
I never said anything about contraceptives in my post, so I assume that's for the current discussion. However, melatonin birth control pills have so far been shown to be entirely safe. Then there's the "copper T," which is a barrier placed inside the uterus, which is mostly safe and can only be removed by a doctor. Yes, these are the responsibility of the woman, but, if it prevents accidental pregnancy or rape-pregnancy, I believe that they should at least consider them.
As I stated previously, this now bores me, as it is no longer a debate and is instead filled with silly posts with no cognitive thought implemented into them. Goodbye.