I've been going through all these posts, and the the thing that strikes me is:
Where are these kid's parents? I keep on seeing comments on how 'kids should be able to make an informed decision....at 13, kids shouldn't HAVE a choice in the matter! They're NOT GROWN, and they don't have the RIGHT to make that choice yet.
My parents talked with me about sex when I hit 11, and they explained to me all of the reasons (religious, mostly in my case) as to why they wanted me to wait until I was married. They told me about how much better it would be if I waited. I listened to them, and I am SO glad I did...
While I have nothing against teaching kids about safe sex, and about STD's and all that, I don't think that they should be doing that in MIDDLE SCHOOL! That's just crazy. High school isn't much better.
I just think parents aren't strict enough. When I was in middle school, my parents knew what I was doing all the time. Even in high school they did, actually. Sex is for ADULTS, and ADULTS have the right to make a decision about whether to wait or not, not 13 year olds.