GhostAnime
Searching for her...
Who? Me???
I am married to the same woman for 24+ years. You can never completely analyze someone iFi.If they have to resort to physical violence to control their spouse, then they must not be very intelligent. Anyone I date I am around enough to have completely analyzed their psyche.
QFT.I wouldn't advise cheating on a man who's already shown the potential that he wouldn't hesitate to harm you.
That isn't true. An abusive partner can be an emotionally explosive person. It is not the fault of the abused. It is all on the abuser, period. Just as cheating is the fault of the cheater, abuse is the fault of the abuser!
Wanting control over a spouse is not reason to be abusive. I understand where you are coming from, but I find your logic terribly flawed. Cause if the control "freak" doesn't feel in control, they can exert control by ending the relationship. Resorting to violence is a lack of control not the other way around.
I am married to the same woman for 24+ years. You can never completely analyze someone iFi
Nothing at all. But one need to accept that abusers will abuse. there is nothing to "fix". If a partner cannot trust you when you are doing nothing to warrant the mistrust, you need to find a better partner for you. You work things out Before the violence happens, once it does, game over, move on and start with someone new.I see.
I was saying that if that partner doesn't trust you as it is and is controlling why in the hell would you want to break that trust any further by cheating? What's wrong with actually sitting down and working things out?
No, but enough to know how to play them.
Sounds like a gigantic red flag for potential abuse, actually.
I wouldn't advise cheating on a man who's already shown the potential that he wouldn't hesitate to harm you.
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You gotta think this through.
reach mental breakdown
They aren't so completely void of it to the point that the grand majority would actually consider that to be the best thing to do.
you don't need to have a vagina to be in an abusive relationship or be abused for that matter. :l (if I am misinterpreting your post, please tell me)
Anyway, battered or not, cheating is cheating. Two wrongs don't make a right. You cannot kill someone because they killed someone you know. You will get the same punishment. Same in this case, you cannot fight pain with even more pain.
I was unaware that repeatedly battered women think logically or rationally.
They aren't so completely void of it to the point that the grand majority would actually consider that to be the best thing to do.
What are you talking about? Do you want me to give leeway to a woman who cheats JUST because one they are a woman and two they were abused?
This is America damn it. Women always are right in court.
What are you talking about? Do you want me to give leeway to a woman who cheats JUST because one they are a woman and two they were abused?
Oh and I'm a girl by the way.
Oh and I'm a girl by the way.
Wait wait wait wait.
I'm not going to equate it 100% to a rape victim.
I'm not entirely sure what I even said that warranted criticism. It's a bad idea regardless of what tendency the person may have. I can be sympathetic/understanding all I want, but it's still a bad idea. That's all I said.