Ok I've never done the breeding thing but when you have a baby pokemon is it the male or female or can it be either or...I wanna breed friggen Eevee but it's a male and I never did this whole egg thing before.
It can be either-or. For Eevee, it simply happens to have a gender ratio skewed towards the males: 87.5% of the Eevees you hatch will be male. You need to bank on the 12.5% chance that it will be a female.
Breed it with a ditto, or you can't get an Eevee. The pokemon that hatches is whatever the female is. If you have a ditto, it's always the other pokemon. Happy breeding!