Guys would you prefer to date a tomboy or a girly girl, assuming both were equally attractive?
Doesn't really matter to me, I'd be fine with dating either. The only problem I'd have with a tomboy or girly girl, is if their personality, is something that makes it hard to go out with them.
Do you think you should have a say in whether or not your theoretically pregnant girlfriend/wife/partner should keep the baby?
Yes, because, not only do I believe that my pregnant girlfriend/wife/partner should have the right to make the choice, but I also believe that I need to tell her my opinion. I'm pro-choice, meaning, I think it is up to the two of us to decide whether or not she should have an abortion, or if we should put it up for adoption after it is born, or even if we should raise it, which, I also think that she should have the right to have an abortion, and even if I don't want her to have one, or even if I want her to have one, I still feel that despite it being her decision ultimately, but I also feel that I should have some power in the decision.
what is the first thing you notice about a girl passing on the street or with your friends (HONESTLY)
I notice the facial expressions, the body language, and the clothing, all of this helps me determine a lot about a girl, like if I should even attempt to get close to her.
Boys, does a girl's religion affect whether or not you'll go out with them?
Not very much at all.
Do prefer girls to dress with tighter shirts and jeans and the like or wear t-shirts and basketball shorts?
I don't really care.
Boys, do you like a girl to be forward or to play 'hard-to-get'?
I would rather her be forward, I would rather her tell me if she likes me, I need complete and total honesty.
What do you expect from the girls on your first date?
I don't really know
Do you like muscular women?
I'm okay if she has some muscles, but if she is one of those body builder types or one of those women that is extremely muscular, I'd be extremely turned off.
What is your weakness with a girl and how do you handle it?
I often make myself vunerable, by trying to connect with her, via sharing a bunch of stuff.
Would you care if your wife/girlfriend made more money than you?
I wouldn't really care, I'd be fine with it!
Boys, if you were married, would you expect your wife to cook, clean and do the laundry for you?
Not really, but I'd be fine with sharing the work, or either of us doing most of it.
Is a girl being a tech-head fine?
Completely! That way, we'll understand the webcomics that either of us reads!
why is it so physically impossible for you to look at our faces rather than our boobs while speaking to us?
No, I'm okay with maintaining eye contact, though, sometimes I get a little distracted, and I stare off into space, or look away from her, I'm easily distracted! Though, if she is fine with me looking at her boobs while we talk, then every once in a while, I might be unable to maintain eye contact.
do you want us to be weak and vulnerable or strong and confident?
Either way, I'd be okay with a girl being strong, confident, vulnerable, or even weak.
With vulnerability, it's key in relationships, as, the more we share, the closer we are, and yet the weaker we are, say, a bad break up, and then she spills every secret of mine.
I believe that relationships, in a way, are vulnerability in it's purest form.
do you expect girls to pay for dates?
Not really, I'd be okay if she payed every once in a while, and other times I pay, or sometimes, we can both pay.
do you mean it when you say we look better without makeup?
Yes, even if a girl is extremely pale, I will still love her for her personality, for who she is, for her soul.
Sometimes, I kinda like it better when girls don't wear makeup, sometimes, I like it better when they do.
It's kinda complicated.
Guys, could you date a girl who has differing views on politics?
Sure, just as long as our views aren't too different that we're unable to accept each other's views....
guys - would it bother you if a girl wouldn't have sex with you because she is saving herself for marriage?
Not very much, but in a way, sure, a slight, tiny amount.
I'd be okay if she was saving herself.
Guys, why do you ask out girls who are mean to you and insult you rather than a girl who is nice? Do I honestly have to be mean to get you to like me?
Well, sometimes, it's complicated, sometimes, I love a girl who is kind, but sometimes, I like a fiesty, strong-willed, and even a bit resistant/hostile girl.
Girls don't have to be mean, or nice, to get me to like them.
why do guys keep their facial hair?
I don't know
If you fancied a boy or girl in school or somewhere, how long would you keep your hopes up, even if it didn't seem like you two would ever go out?
Well, it depends, sure, if it's a certain person, I can understand.
But, then there are the times that I am hopeless, because, the two of us, are so alike, so similar, that it feels like we're soul mates, and in that situation, I won't ever give up, because I know one day, it will be possible, I just have to wait.
Here's a question for the guys: How do you handle your emotions in a relationship? Do you suppress them and be a "tough guy", or do you just let them run free? What pressures do you feel in expressing emotion?
I don't know how to be a 'tough guy', so, yeah, I'm a bit emotional. I share my true feelings, I don't lie unless there is a good reason.
Nothing really pressures me, I'm used to releasing my emotions in general.
If anything pressures me, it's the feeling that if I'm not honest, she won't trust me, and I won't trust myself.
Guys and girls, would you ever be interested in having an online relationship? Do you think it could work?
Sure, it could work, I guess.
Physical appearances don't matter that much to me in a relationship, sure, at certain times, they can, but for me, I put value more in who the person really is, because, I find nothing more fun in a relationship, than getting to know the person, getting to actually KNOW who they are.
I have a question for boys and girls...if a person you liked smoked or drinks or whatever would you still go after them or leave them alone?
It really depends, because, well, I can't handle second hand smoke, because, after being exposed to it in the past, I can't breath around cigarette smoke, so, it really depends on the brand, because the different smells really affect how I can breath.
Question for gals/guys: Do you like it when he/she sees you and stops to talk to you, or just says hi, or walks past you?
Yes, I love it whenever the girl I like, passes by, or says hi, or even has a conversation with me.
