I never got the friendzone. Then again for a guy i feel like I have a weird proportion of men to women friends.
If you're the type of person who complains about being in the "friendzone", chances are you were never actually that girl's friend. Only being friends so that you can date/hook up with someone and being upset when they don't want to is inherently manipulative.
It's been nearly 2 months since I posted a response to a facebook link where I said something along the lines of "Donald Trump strikes down people who he sees a threat to his ego". The comments I get are mixed, but come on, 2 months with "I find Trump a great guy. Eh says stuff and doesn't afraid of anything". (Obvious parody, but this is also representative.)So I went in the YouTube comment section and I posted that Call of Duty Infinite War looks like recycled trash. The replies I'm getting are so loving lol.
"Go kill yourself Battlefield fanboy" "Go **** yourself"
There's so many more replies haha. Time to go grab some popcorn. This is great entertainment.
Honestly, I imagine most of the users commenting are 12 year old kids. At that age I didn't have a potty mouth, and if I did I would have got my a** kicked.
i blame all the stupid romcoms that make it look ~so romantic~ to hide feelings for someone for a long time and then confess in a big way. which in real life would probably end the friendship and cause bad feelings all around. i mean i know sometimes feelings do change over time but that's different from purposely hiding it for some grand confessionIf you're the type of person who complains about being in the "friendzone", chances are you were never actually that girl's friend. Only being friends so that you can date/hook up with someone and being upset when they don't want to is inherently manipulative.
i think it's just part of growing up tbh. i used to have almost all female friends and now it's pretty even for me. once youre past being a dumb kid/early teen you learn to relate to people just as people rather than based on their gender. at least HOPEFULLY you do.It kinda weirds me out a tad that I now have more female friends than male friends, since it used to be the other way around
yeah, but i think the way movies portray it is more of a misunderstanding of correlation vs causation. if i am friends with a guy for a long time i probably won't want to go out with him but that's not BECAUSE we have been friends for awhile. it's more like if i had feelings for him i would have made a move fairly early on and thus the friendship wouldn't go on for that long without a discussion in the first place.It's kind of weird because this is what the internet says it means.
But the TV says it means there is some magic timer and if you don't ask someone out or whatever before the time is up, they will no longer be interested and those are the rules of the universe or something.
Which is pretty silly but doesn't sound quite so assholish.
the "friendzone" is a stupid concept made up by immature people who can't communicate feelings properly
the "friendzone" is a stupid concept made up by immature people who can't communicate feelings properly
Or they offer you drugs for some reason. I like to think I'm someone who's good at reacting on their feet but that one got me.
Or maybe people just don't have feelings or don't want to be in a relationship with that person, so instead you suggest being friends. I've "friendzoned" a few girls that I just wasn't in to before and more recently this chick I work with because well I don't want to mix the two together. We hang out, go to the movies, go out to clubs, parties, etc.
online dating is trash for men.
the term "putting someone in the friendzone" implies that she (or he, but lbr usually it's referring to a she) is doing something malicious and mean to the poor friendzoned nice guy who just cant catch a break. that's where most of the issue comes in, not that someone just wants to be friends. but i guess saying "i told her i liked her and she wasnt attracted to me" doesnt have the same ring as "i told her i liked her and she put me in the friendzone"
the "friendzone" is a stupid concept made up by immature people who can't communicate feelings properly
If you're the type of person who complains about being in the "friendzone", chances are you were never actually that girl's friend. Only being friends so that you can date/hook up with someone and being upset when they don't want to is inherently manipulative.
the term "putting someone in the friendzone" implies that she (or he, but lbr usually it's referring to a she) is doing something malicious and mean to the poor friendzoned nice guy who just cant catch a break. that's where most of the issue comes in, not that someone just wants to be friends. but i guess saying "i told her i liked her and she wasnt attracted to me" doesnt have the same ring as "i told her i liked her and she put me in the friendzone"