I wish I could be a manchild sometimes. 2 jobs and full time school suck all the fun out of most of my week.
Here here. I was like that when I finished undergrads going for my masters and it sucks. Full time student, 18 hours a semester, summers, volunteering in research, 2 jobs at the mall, substituting... it takes alot out of people. Never had the time for games or rest. And then when I finished, I got dumped off like I was nothing. Now I'm unemployed, carless, in debt and looking for work, waiting to go back to school this fall for a new career. Didn't like what I got myself into. Apparently I'm still trying to find myself just like how it was for my after high school 10 years ago when i kept worrying about what i want to go do with my life. I don't think its a good idea or impression to leave on kids in life, but to keep it simple and flexible and keep pushing to have goals and achievements in life.
I missed 5 years of gaming and a generation of it and it sucks. 5 installments of pokemon from black and white to the latest. and i fell into a severe depression at the time like the sonic games where it all became redundant and i got tired and fed up and drowned myself in obscure indie music that eventually became popular and well commercialized. Now I have a bunch of vinyl records I want to get rid of for games because of it.
All the time could have gotten me a 3DS, Wii U and a PS4 and played some good games like Pokemon, fire emblem and Ace attorney. Its hard to believe 7 yeras flew by me like a blink of an eye. It was only yesterday I was looking on wikipedia on shaman king that it didnt end, only to wake up today looking that Takei actually finally finished the series after many years. Hell, I put off naruto for 7 years, only to find out it finished 2 years ago and kept up with one piece only and then eventually into other series and all that other open minded stuff out there. Turns out I was very narrow minded over the years instead of creative and flexible like i used to be.
My game collection will soon get me No more heroes 2, Nights, viewtiful joe, killer is dead, ghost trick, time hollow, 999 and all those other good games I missed out on during my days in academia drowning myself in books. And here I thought I wanted to make a game and anime and manga like i did back in the day. job security and keeping it simple is basically where its at. then i can spend all my time playing games like i used to when i get things going again.
Of course who I work with doesn't matter; I'm not going back next year. Education has a lot of good sides, but I don't think I'm tough enough for it long term. There's A LOT of interpersonal conflict in schools, and you have to be really good at powering through it and standing your ground. It's for "strong personalities," which they don't warn you about in college. I'm switching to IT, where you don't have to interact as much with other people.
I hear you. I haven't been a student in 4 years and worked mostly as stock at the mall, tutor and substitute and not being able to pick up work for a while or get a masters. I enjoyed education for aw while, but ended up decided for a career change. I liked getting along with the kids but had trouble after a while when politics got around and was basically eventually let go because of Facebook and all that garbage, so I got rid of it and got rid of bad positions I defended during undergrads I picked up around a bunch of stupid liberal hipsters at the time who all ironically moved on and went with the system. Living like that was a complete silly lie. I wanted to live as a hermit away from society with no debts and all that. High school never mentioned this. Stupid teachers...
I'm basically now back this fall for nursing and going for my masters and Doctor of Nursing practice after. Better job security, pay, flexibility and all that. I've worked 18 hour semesters and did research, so this should be nothing for me. I like immersing myself in literature and working hard.
It's far better than physical therapy from what i was told. I remember back when it was in demand and then it tanked and the jobs got bad and so did the pay. I'm super glad I didn't go in that direction when I finished and contemplated my career a bit more. Holding back helps sometimes apparently.
And to think life would end after college in academia. It still begins apparently.
Also, might want to do research on IT. It's a bit more hard labor compared to what I thought it was and you still deal with people sometimes. But it depends the kind of places you work in. You're honestly better off in math before going for that. It's more natural and all more in demand and flexible compared to IT. I would just get certified in IT and get a Ph.D in math. But that's just me. I was going for a Ph.D in Math and Psychology, but that would take years of my life away and didn't like the job prospects after. All because I wanted to be a know it all genius. When i started hanging with Ph.Ds and looking at job security, it scared me into going into nursing. I was going to go for MD school, but 7 years of schooling for 80 hour work weeks with low pay and bad income the rest of your life for student loans was not something I wanted to get myself into.
You should look into medical coding and nursing informatics, maybe even data management. I hear those are pretty good. A masters in IT would help. I hear most schools don't have many pre requisites or GRE. Maybe even online classes.