Whilst I believe that it's okay to be gay, a luxury in america, I believe it's a choice.
Nope, nope, and more nope.
There's no "believe" about it. How many people who identify as homosexual do you think would switch to being straight in a heartbeat to escape the discrimination, if it really was a choice?
It's only a luxury in some countries because they don't put anyone accused of being gay to death or lock them up in prison anymore. Just because a handful of countries and a few US states have made civil unions or gay marriage legal doesn't mean they've gotten rid of the ingrained hate for it in the population.
I dont believe your "born gay" but that you develope your choice in your lifetime, more specificly, in your childhood. Choosing sexuality is like choosing a religion, you want to make the choice that gives you the most happiness. No one is "born catholic" except by birthright, but your not inclined to practice it... just like your sexuality.
Oh, hell no. Those two things are like apples and oranges, child.
Many kids are raised with the influence of any given religion in their life, and it's not uncommon that they wind up not really buying it later in life and just cast it off for whatever they'd rather believe. However, even if you're raised with religion, it is, strictly speaking, not a subconscious part of you as a person.
But it is when you have a certain sexual identity. Let's turn the tables for a moment and assume that, for whatever reason, it's not the homosexuals that are oppressed, but the heterosexuals. Don't go into justifying the why of this hypothetical situation, just assume. You're straight, and you like the opposite gender. However, due to the public stigma against it, you have to be extremely careful who you talk to and what you say, and even then, there's no guarantee someone won't backstab you, out you as the lesser-accepted sexual preference, and light a match in a field of brush so as to start a wildfire. And when that wildfire escalates enough, you run the risk of getting assaulted or killed, while the individual(s) who were responsible for it make the excuse of "oh, he tried to come onto me, but it skeeved me out because I don't swing that way".
But no matter how hard you try, no matter how much your force yourself to try and date people of the gender you're not attracted to, no matter how much you try to push yourself to marry one and devote yourself to that person in a way that would be better suited for someone you actually loved... you can't do it. It just doesn't happen, no matter how much you wish it would.
Now, flip the tables back the way they are now.
That's homosexuality as it is in today's society in a nutshell. That's why all the people with straight privilege who spout off all this stupid **** about "homosexuality is a choice, they could just date people of the other gender and there'd be no problem!" are wrong, full stop. All you have to do to see why is to put yourself in their shoes; turning a gay person straight is about as easy as turning a straight person gay.
There is no "gay gene", if there was, homosexuality would have been widely accepted over the ages and there would be less humans in the race
While I'm not convinced genes have anything to do with it, you should've stopped after "there is no gay gene" there. Because we all know society always accepts the newest scientific ideas automatically, right? I mean, there was totally no backlash when it started getting more widely accepted that the earth was round, and then when it was proven not to be the center of the universe! And evolution is a completely accepted theory for life on Earth today!
...Sorry, but I don't think having less people on the planet is a bad thing, personally. Not getting rid of the ones we have, but preventing the births of those who won't have an especially great life. There's also the fact that homosexual couples have the option of adoption or surrogacy, and with that first one, it's helping find homes for kids who otherwise would not have one at all. I fail to see how less unwanted kids in orphanages is a problem, that said.