-.- I don't live under that big of a rock- I know that despite ratings, people who really shouldn't feel the need to, still watch porn. 8rolls eyes*
Buuuut us Jewish Candaian teenagers don't usually watch it. A lot of people I know can have 'real life porn' whenever they want. >> You wouldn't believe the stories from summer-camp.
Oh teh noes, porn wastes seed! That's why we don't watch it! [/omfghorriblejoke]
And anyways, just because little children watch it, doesn't make it right, or any less sick. Besides, do you think half these kids know what they're watching, or that they can *coughs* "appreciate" it? And watching porn, no matter how much, won't give you any 1337 skillz to actually write it, or at least not well.
At least if you've had, ah, proper sex you can give a basic description of it. If you don't know what you're talking about, don't write sex scenes- seriously, don't even consider it. You'll just come off as looking like an immature idiot who's just trying to make him/herself and possibly others horny.
I've never had sex. I've never watched pornography. The most I know about sex is from friends who have engaged in sexual activities (of many sorts, mind you) and from a book written very well with multiple sexual scenes- but there was still emotion and everything there, despite the fact that the two characters had a very complicated relationship and it was more lust than anything that drove them to have sex.
Summer Lovin'; sounds like teenlit, but trust me, my mother read it before I stole it from her and before she could protest. Amazing book, by the way.
But I probably won't run off and try to write a sex scene. >>
~Psychic