GhostAnime
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What is exactly redundant?
Total agreement that porn is fine and natural is a good thing.
Total agreement that porn is fine and natural is a good thing.
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Archimedes
Not Dead Yet
If your significant other isn't in to your fetishes and kinks it's not porns fault for turning you on to it. Porn doesn't destroy relationships in this case, it's an incompatibility in bed, because if someone's not getting their needs met there it's not going to end well.
Pinsirius
Sentimental Fool ;)
(So much for backing out)
Except the fetish and kink would not have existed in your mind if not for porn. In which case it is a personal responsibility fail triggered by a completely unnecessary psychological risk.
What I don't get is how we can cast off so much of what is in porn to mere taste- heaven forbid I'm a prick for questioning the wisdom of a pain fetish. It's a taste, but just as much a "Freedom to do does not mean you should do." How do I know that this emphasis on porn as education isn't idealized, rather unecessary and potentially destructive mental baggage to horny dudes online? Or am I overestimating the potency of this stuff?
GhostAnime
Searching for her...
This can also be triggered by a past relationship or just plain curiosity.
If the kink is there, it's better to find out early than later as I said before.
You certainly can't blame porn as some kind of source for it, though.
Destructive.. how?
Well, who wants to be nude on stage with a band? You'd feel inadequate next to the oboes.
Devastator2000
Are you high...?
Oh, There's nothing wrong with porn, Unless it's child porn and/or You're addicted to it.
You'd be surprised how much that stuff sells for, especially since American Pie came around.
Archimedes
Not Dead Yet
Well that and oboes are just ridiculously sexy. Only outmatched by the incredible power of the synthesizer.
I hate to say it, but I'm actually somewhat jealous of porn performers and it's not just because they have sex all the time or whatever.
It's because they are:
1: (most all of them are) Comfortable and Confident enough with their bodies to be seen that way
2: Able to just disconnect what they are doing from anything that means something special between him/her and his/her partner(s)
3: Can comfortably go from one person to the next
and
4: Are strong enough to admit it to others or defend themselves if they are found out
I'm stuck healing from old wounds left from ex's and with the whole "I want to have something special" aspect. I couldn't open up to someone right now...especially in front of a camera with a stranger.
I know someone in porn. He is one of the nicest and sweetest guys I know. And, he's extremely bright. When I found out, I was so shocked. I would have never EVER have guessed that he would be in the industry. But he is and he's using it to pay for college. My only worry is that I guess he's becoming more and more of a desired name now. I just hope he doesn't start to see the $$$ instead of what his goals were to begin with.
And, I think that it is safe to say I am jealous how they can have sex for an hour and make more money than I do in a week.
When it comes to children watching porn...sometimes I think that it's actually a really good thing.
(I'm not going to pretend I don't) All the ones I watch that have bareback sex have a disclaimer talking about the risks and how the models understand and accept the risk involved. They also say how condoms and knowing your partner are the safest thing you can do to prevent std'd/hiv. For a lot of kids, parents and educators almost refuse to say or discuss condoms. Some kids also have no one that they can turn to in order to ask what happens or how things work. (Porn pretty much just shows you EVERYTHING now)
While I do think that it has aspects to open up their minds to what sex is and unprotected sex vs. protected sex...it's probably way too graphic for a child to start watching. It could lead them to think of sex as nothing more than a way to "get off" that is just a physical process. I can only think of about a small few that had a relationship and caring storyline...one of them has one person being abducted and raped by people met along the way and one of them ended up in the couple cheating on each other.
I think that porn is just a fantasy and should really just be regarded as such because it actually really has no impact on the events of someone's life...unless you are in the porn. The only exception is when it gives you ideas/positions you'd like to try out. Some are just ok...and some...Oh Wow...it's really not an O moment...it's an A-Z moment.
It's because they are:
1: (most all of them are) Comfortable and Confident enough with their bodies to be seen that way
2: Able to just disconnect what they are doing from anything that means something special between him/her and his/her partner(s)
3: Can comfortably go from one person to the next
and
4: Are strong enough to admit it to others or defend themselves if they are found out
I'm stuck healing from old wounds left from ex's and with the whole "I want to have something special" aspect. I couldn't open up to someone right now...especially in front of a camera with a stranger.
I know someone in porn. He is one of the nicest and sweetest guys I know. And, he's extremely bright. When I found out, I was so shocked. I would have never EVER have guessed that he would be in the industry. But he is and he's using it to pay for college. My only worry is that I guess he's becoming more and more of a desired name now. I just hope he doesn't start to see the $$$ instead of what his goals were to begin with.
And, I think that it is safe to say I am jealous how they can have sex for an hour and make more money than I do in a week.
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When it comes to children watching porn...sometimes I think that it's actually a really good thing.
(I'm not going to pretend I don't) All the ones I watch that have bareback sex have a disclaimer talking about the risks and how the models understand and accept the risk involved. They also say how condoms and knowing your partner are the safest thing you can do to prevent std'd/hiv. For a lot of kids, parents and educators almost refuse to say or discuss condoms. Some kids also have no one that they can turn to in order to ask what happens or how things work. (Porn pretty much just shows you EVERYTHING now)
While I do think that it has aspects to open up their minds to what sex is and unprotected sex vs. protected sex...it's probably way too graphic for a child to start watching. It could lead them to think of sex as nothing more than a way to "get off" that is just a physical process. I can only think of about a small few that had a relationship and caring storyline...one of them has one person being abducted and raped by people met along the way and one of them ended up in the couple cheating on each other.
~ ~ ~
I think that porn is just a fantasy and should really just be regarded as such because it actually really has no impact on the events of someone's life...unless you are in the porn. The only exception is when it gives you ideas/positions you'd like to try out. Some are just ok...and some...Oh Wow...it's really not an O moment...it's an A-Z moment.
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Don't forget the bassoon.Bassoons are insanely sexy as well.
Question for the room: If you were dating someone...that was reluctant to answer the question "what do you do for a living", just changed the subject, and never answered it...but you two really clicked and were really falling for each other...and he/she finally admitted that he/she was a porn star, would you stay in that relationship or become just friends?
I could not stay in the relationship. Monogamy is a huge requirement for me. Sleeping around with other people is the sure fire way to end the relationship. And since I have been hurt in the past before, I would not be able to see their porn job as anything other than getting paid to cheat on me...and while in front of an audience...and later a private home viewer. I mean, sure it's just a job to them and they are making good money, but I take the kissing, the closeness, and everything else so personally and passionately. When I give myself to someone, it's all of me and I'd like to be the only person that he gives himself to as well. If he quit the job for me, then it would still be a while before I could open up to him.
That's the main reason why I pity porn performers.
The other reason I pity them is because I am terrified for them. It's so risky. If the person they are scheduled to have sex with hooked up with the wrong person the week, day, night, or hour before has an std or even hiv, then they are running the risk of catching it too. And then what happens? I don't know if there is an hiv+ and AIDS on;y studio for them to move to, but even if there was, then they would just be mixing strands and could get sicker faster. The risk of infection is what scares me the most for them.
I could not stay in the relationship. Monogamy is a huge requirement for me. Sleeping around with other people is the sure fire way to end the relationship. And since I have been hurt in the past before, I would not be able to see their porn job as anything other than getting paid to cheat on me...and while in front of an audience...and later a private home viewer. I mean, sure it's just a job to them and they are making good money, but I take the kissing, the closeness, and everything else so personally and passionately. When I give myself to someone, it's all of me and I'd like to be the only person that he gives himself to as well. If he quit the job for me, then it would still be a while before I could open up to him.
That's the main reason why I pity porn performers.
The other reason I pity them is because I am terrified for them. It's so risky. If the person they are scheduled to have sex with hooked up with the wrong person the week, day, night, or hour before has an std or even hiv, then they are running the risk of catching it too. And then what happens? I don't know if there is an hiv+ and AIDS on;y studio for them to move to, but even if there was, then they would just be mixing strands and could get sicker faster. The risk of infection is what scares me the most for them.
Question for the room: If you were dating someone...that was reluctant to answer the question "what do you do for a living", just changed the subject, and never answered it...but you two really clicked and were really falling for each other...and he/she finally admitted that he/she was a porn star, would you stay in that relationship or become just friends?
I could not stay in the relationship. Monogamy is a huge requirement for me. Sleeping around with other people is the sure fire way to end the relationship. And since I have been hurt in the past before, I would not be able to see their porn job as anything other than getting paid to cheat on me...and while in front of an audience...and later a private home viewer. I mean, sure it's just a job to them and they are making good money, but I take the kissing, the closeness, and everything else so personally and passionately. When I give myself to someone, it's all of me and I'd like to be the only person that he gives himself to as well. If he quit the job for me, then it would still be a while before I could open up to him.
That's the main reason why I pity porn performers.
The other reason I pity them is because I am terrified for them. It's so risky. If the person they are scheduled to have sex with hooked up with the wrong person the week, day, night, or hour before has an std or even hiv, then they are running the risk of catching it too. And then what happens? I don't know if there is an hiv+ and AIDS on;y studio for them to move to, but even if there was, then they would just be mixing strands and could get sicker faster. The risk of infection is what scares me the most for them.
I could not stay in the relationship. Monogamy is a huge requirement for me. Sleeping around with other people is the sure fire way to end the relationship. And since I have been hurt in the past before, I would not be able to see their porn job as anything other than getting paid to cheat on me...and while in front of an audience...and later a private home viewer. I mean, sure it's just a job to them and they are making good money, but I take the kissing, the closeness, and everything else so personally and passionately. When I give myself to someone, it's all of me and I'd like to be the only person that he gives himself to as well. If he quit the job for me, then it would still be a while before I could open up to him.
That's the main reason why I pity porn performers.
The other reason I pity them is because I am terrified for them. It's so risky. If the person they are scheduled to have sex with hooked up with the wrong person the week, day, night, or hour before has an std or even hiv, then they are running the risk of catching it too. And then what happens? I don't know if there is an hiv+ and AIDS on;y studio for them to move to, but even if there was, then they would just be mixing strands and could get sicker faster. The risk of infection is what scares me the most for them.
Locke Yggdrasill
Eustis on reddit
I agree with you on the monogamy part. I'd have a problem sleeping with my girlfriend if she'd been with someone before.
Porn sets are very clean and STD free though, even low budget productions. I mean like real porn, not two people taping themselves doin' the dirty. Real porn with a legit crew. That crew ALWAYS has a sanitation supervisor and part of their responsibility is to make sure STI and STD doesn't ever need to be a concern. Plus the screening process involves a bunch of testing too.
I read a reddit on it the other day.
Well Porn is subjective. I have no problem with it except that it gives an unrealistic view of how easy it is to convince someone to have sex with you. How big your junk isn't, and how flexible the woman you wanna have sex with...isn't.
My wife She doesn't like porn because it leads to a lack of male ability cause they waste themselves in their hand.
If your 18 make up your own mind. However respect your partner's feelings if they differ from yours.
My wife She doesn't like porn because it leads to a lack of male ability cause they waste themselves in their hand.
If your 18 make up your own mind. However respect your partner's feelings if they differ from yours.
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