I think you're kind of missing the point of pride then. It is about diversity and accepting that diversity. People have different tastes, different identities, different interests. That applies to a lot of things in life, food, music, clothing, shows, humour, and also sexual attraction. And the point is that people shouldn't be excluded, attacked, discriminated against, etc just for being different from the mainstream as long as those differences don't harm anybody. LGBTQ+ people have been attacked, discriminated against, excluded from communities, and executed over the course of history just for being who they are, because some other folks "feel uncomfortable" around them. And by wanting to exclude kink from pride just because of your own "feeling uncomfortable", you're doing essentially the same. If you feel uncomfortable around them, that's your issue to deal with. You don't have to date them, you don't have to be friends with them, you don't have to join them, you just don't get to discriminate against them, scold them, attack them, or ban them from public events just because of your feelings.