It just means you're growing up. I haven't been utterly devastated by a breakup since I was like 14. I just broke up with my boyfriend of a year last week and it's all good. It was hard at first, but it was just time to end it. I think you guys were the sameYeah...So my boyfriend and I just broke up, after about dating for 8 months (which is considered a long time at my school for some reason :S)
But it wasn't like those tragic, messy break ups I feel like happen alot.
Like, we've both been swamped with school work, and his mom just passed away right before Christmas... And since it's our senior year, I guess he realized that it in this point in his life he rather have friends and not "lovers" and just make the best of that.
It was hard at first, because I do still love him (as a close friend, to all you who rage at the slightest mention of "love" in a teenage relationship), but I'm okay with it now.
We were best friends before we started dating...and we intend to continue our relationship just as we were before. Or at least try to >_>
Zomg, it is possible not to hate your ex with a burning passion!