By that logic VH,, the "most reputable" users(via more accumulated time on the site and casual friends assimilated into their profile, ready to back up/defend their choices mindlessly) can abuse the system to bully the"less reputable"(in reality, users they don't like for personal, non-objective reasons) newcomers off the site via using their overinflated, long-accumulated "good reputation" to enforce their clique-based, high school-esque biased opinions on those w/o 200 friends to back them up.
This system is in favor of the admins and site owner, in addition to long-time and/or"popular" users. I think being able to turn off visible reputation isn't enough, because it doesn't cover the emotional damage from bad reputation points viewed in private.
This system needs to go, because there should be no cliques on the internet.
That is so true. Thank you so much for being the person who puts it to words so beatifully and truthfully. Please, get this terrible system out of here