So naturally, when men read this, they say, "Hey! Don't insult our gender!" because that's kinda what Starling does; in a very sloppy way she targets rapists and projects it onto all men, without adequately excusing the higher percentage of men who are not rapists and without explaining that a high percentage of men don't condone rape. It also leaves out the men who are already romantically engaged and the career engaged bachelor men who aren't dating and could care less about what a woman reading a book on the subway would tell them if he interrupted, since he wouldn't. Ideally, the article has a limited audience, because if the reader is not the kind of man that would interrupt a woman from their reading to get their phone number, then they'll probably be perturbed by Starling's rant.
Well, I'm going to ignore that you called it a rant after saying "The article is a good article and for a good cause"....
Do you think rapists are about half and half men and women?
I don't, and neither do any statisitics I have ever seen or heard about. It absolutely is a male issue, and to treat as anything else would only be an obstacle to fixing it. Men are killing, raping and harassing women. It is a problem, even if some men are not killing, raping and harassing women.
As to the men who do it right and not a problem... I'm reminded of Chris Rock. "You're supposed to, you dumb mother****er!"
I appreciate the efforts of those who do get it right and who do take care, but if they also need praise for doing so, then that is a bit worrying.
It's baseline decency, not impressive heroism.
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