Ok so:
Val and I were supposed to play at around ~10:00 pm EST. He promptly showed up at around 11:30-12:00pm (understandably I was afk and took like 20-30 minutes to respond). I told him to get on xat (which I had mentioned to him before as the means we should communicate when we are both on) so I then stopped refreshing serebii and only checked xat every now and then. At around 12:30 he messaged me on the forums saying that he cannot use xat (something he should have really told me on the previous occasions I mentioned us communicating over xat), even though he has a direct link to his clan xat in his sig and people have told me he has "followed" them on xat in the past. I then promptly messaged him at around 12:50ish when I saw the message, asking to play but he has been afk for 20 minutes and I am very tired. I will try to stay awake for 10 more min, but then I'm sleeping.
Also, we had originally scheduled for sunday but he asked to move it to 10 pm EST (well actually he asked for 11:30 am EST first but I have school....).
so yea
EDIT: LOL now he logged off. Yea I'm done, thank you for wasting 3 1/2 hours on a night I had already told you I really would prefer not to stay up during.