Because it's creepy. You're supposed to reject the kid and send them back to their parents. You didn't know the kid or their parents so yeah it's creepy and I would've called you a creep as well if that was my child.Why would it be bad to let a kid shoot hoops with you when he asks?
Gender roles, stereotypes, and Fundamental Attribution Error . Nothing else needs to be said.Anyways, I would like your opinions on the whole "Assume every man is a pedophile or murderer" thing and over-all what your opinions are on sexist profiling of men in media and in public. Thank you.
Because it's creepy. You're supposed to reject the kid and send them back to their parents. You didn't know the kid or their parents so yeah it's creepy and I would've called you a creep as well if that was my child.
Is that poor sarcasm or are you being serious?
What's wrong with you?Because it's creepy. You're supposed to reject the kid and send them back to their parents. You didn't know the kid or their parents so yeah it's creepy and I would've called you a creep as well if that was my child.
Regarding the OP, I agree with what people have been saying about the mother's protective instincts, as well as with the fact that she calling you a creep to your face is nothing short of uncalled for. What really gets me, though, is that, rather than preventing a situation she was obviously not-OK with from happening in the first place, she just reacted to it after it had already taken place (and in quite the unsavory fashion, no less). I mean, in the event that her kid did wander up to a pedophile, that kid would be gone long before she would be on the scene to yell at the pedo. I understand that no parent can supervise their child perfectly, but that's no reason to take it out on someone else, except maybe by admonishing kid for doing it in the first place, and certainly not by insulting a total stranger.
I see absolutely nothing wrong in doing that. The OP said the kid asked to play with him, I think it'd be far worse to reject the kid than risk being called a creep by a parent who fails at parenting and blames it on others.You don't start playing with a person's child if you do not know the child's parent.
Edit: And yeah, most of what I said was serious. You ask the child where are their parents and take the child to them. You don't play basketball with them as though they're familiar to you.
You don't start playing with a person's child if you do not know the child's parent.
Edit: And yeah, most of what I said was serious. You ask the child where are their parents and take the child to them. You don't play basketball with them as though they're familiar to you.
Because it's creepy. You're supposed to reject the kid and send them back to their parents. You didn't know the kid or their parents so yeah it's creepy and I would've called you a creep as well if that was my child.Gender roles, stereotypes, and Fundamental Attribution Error . Nothing else needs to be said.
They were in a public park, with tons of people around. There's nothing wrong about 2 people sharing a public basketball court together..
Here is why:
First of all, men make more money than women. Period. For the same jobs. When we're not being paid $0.70 to your $1.00, maybe we'll be more amenable to going dutch.
Now. How much money do you spend on makeup? How much money do you spend on clothes? On your lingerie? On your hair? On your skincare? On your nails? On your gym membership? We spend a hell of a lot of money keeping up with the way society has conditioned men to think we should look. And don't give me that, "Oh girls are beautiful just the way they are" ******** because believe me, if you had a choice between a girl who took care of herself the way she was expected to and one who took care of herself the way men take care of themselves, I know which one you'd pick.
Women put a lot of investment into making ourselves someone men would want to be seen with. It's ok for you to pay a little bit of that back to us.
I can understand women taking care of their bodies to look good, but what do you think we do? We have our alternatives to looking as great as we can for you girls too. I've spent over $100 on protein shakes in the past 4 weeks (each pack is around $25-$30) and at least one hour a day working out staying in shape, which is MUCH more painful than adding on a skincare treatment or makeup.
OkI can understand women taking care of their bodies to look good, but what do you think we do? We have our alternatives to looking as great as we can for you girls too. I've spent over $100 on protein shakes in the past 4 weeks (each pack is around $25-$30) and at least one hour a day working out staying in shape, which is MUCH more painful than adding on a skincare treatment or makeup. Do you know how much BO leaks out of us from even just a little heat? It's gruesome and disgusting.
Look, I'm all for equality, I think everybody deserves chances that others have, but would it kill you to pay for that dinner after we get you those $500 rings and earings on valentine's day?
I didn't create it; therefore, it is not my problem. This is exactly the Social Darwinist attitude every individual should embrace. Intervention is not natural and only supports the weak. We need to rebuild America through oppression.
What's wrong with you?
I see absolutely nothing wrong in doing that. The OP said the kid asked to play with him, I think it'd be far worse to reject the kid than risk being called a creep by a parent who fails at parenting and blames it on others.
Maybe if the kid was playing in his own driveway would the OP be considered a creep but in a public park whats the issue with being nice?
They were in a public park, with tons of people around. There's nothing wrong about 2 people sharing a public basketball court together..
Not to mention that in the grand scheme of things child abduction is (thankfully) incredibly rare. Glad to see we're all agreed about who is in the wrong here.
I'm sorry that I wouldn't want my child to play in a park with some stranger that I've never met. A better question is what the **** is wrong with you? Letting your child play with a stranger and you're not even made aware about it by said stranger.
Who cares if the kid asked him to play? That doesn't change anything. The OP is a big boy now and should know better than that. You are supposed to take the child back to their parent. Also, regardless on whether or not you think the parent is at fault, that doesn't stop creepy OP here from receiving blame as well.
The point is that he has a responsibility to find the child's parent He didn't know the kid, he didn't know the parent, so why is he playing with the kid? The OP is a stranger to that child and to the parent.
There's something wrong with playing with a child you don't know or whose parents you don't know.
lmao at me being in the wrong because I wouldn't want my kid playing with some strange guy that I know nothing about
So just because child abduction is rare, kids should be allowed to go and talk to strangers? No of course not. You know that.
Of course, I will be a bad parent.
Because it's creepy. You're supposed to reject the kid and send them back to their parents. You didn't know the kid or their parents so yeah it's creepy and I would've called you a creep as well if that was my child.Gender roles, stereotypes, and Fundamental Attribution Error . Nothing else needs to be said.
If you were paying attention of your child you would have seen the stranger coming. As a parent I'm just saying.I'm sorry that I wouldn't want my child to play in a park with some stranger that I've never met. A better question is what the **** is wrong with you? Letting your child play with a stranger and you're not even made aware about it by said stranger.
If the OP was entertaining the kid there is nothing wrong. To many people are afraid to be friendly at all with children.Who cares if the kid asked him to play? That doesn't change anything. The OP is a big boy now and should know better than that. You are supposed to take the child back to their parent. Also, regardless on whether or not you think the parent is at fault, that doesn't stop creepy OP here from receiving blame as well.
I'd say the onus is on the parent not the stranger. Yes it would have been a good idea to ask where the parent is, but there is nothing wrong with what the OP did.The point is that he has a responsibility to find the child's parent He didn't know the kid, he didn't know the parent, so why is he playing with the kid? The OP is a stranger to that child and to the parent.
And what is wrong with making a child happy? Not all strangers are evil child molesters. I would play with a child if it came to me, I would look for the parent, but if the child is playing with me, he/she will return to the parent safe and sound. I'd also politely remind the parent that children require 110% of our attention all the time. It is never ever wrong to be a good person.Did you even read what I wrote? I never said that. I said that he was wrong for playing with the kid in the first place. There is nothing wrong with two people sharing a court. There's something wrong with playing with a child you don't know or whose parents you don't know.
Yes they should, under your watchful eye of course. And the child should be told the dangers of doing so.. alone.lmao at me being in the wrong because I wouldn't want my kid playing with some strange guy that I know nothing about. So just because child abduction is rare, kids should be allowed to go and talk to strangers? No of course not. You know that.