*~Gypsy Abyss~*
Master in Training
How does it feel to be the younger sibling?
How does it feel to be the older sibling?
~I myself am an older sibling and I KNOW it isn't a smooth and peachy road. Listening to other people in the same situation... I noticed a lot of topics get repeated and brought up.
*For Example, I hear a lot of:
I'm always in my brother/or sisters shadow!
My parents give my younger sibling ALL the attention!
I just want to help my younger brother/ or sister but they don't want anything to do with me or don't want to take my advice! How come my sibling can't see that I'm looking out for them and don't want to see them get hurt, or go down a real bad road!
My older sibling tries to act like they are my parent!
My sibling just doesn't understand me!
Etc, etc etc, and the list goes on...
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Why do we have these conflicts?
Why do we do what we do, and react how we react?
Why does it get to the point where there is pent up resentment, anger, jealousy, and maybe even hatred in between?
How come we just can't get along?
And if you are one of the fortunate one's that happen to actually have a REAL good relationship with your sibling, please share your secrets to success LOL I'm sure a lot of us would like to know.
*If there is an issue that isn't on the list yet? Feel free to post it.*
How does it feel to be the older sibling?
~I myself am an older sibling and I KNOW it isn't a smooth and peachy road. Listening to other people in the same situation... I noticed a lot of topics get repeated and brought up.
*For Example, I hear a lot of:
I'm always in my brother/or sisters shadow!
My parents give my younger sibling ALL the attention!
I just want to help my younger brother/ or sister but they don't want anything to do with me or don't want to take my advice! How come my sibling can't see that I'm looking out for them and don't want to see them get hurt, or go down a real bad road!
My older sibling tries to act like they are my parent!
My sibling just doesn't understand me!
Etc, etc etc, and the list goes on...
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Why do we have these conflicts?
Why do we do what we do, and react how we react?
Why does it get to the point where there is pent up resentment, anger, jealousy, and maybe even hatred in between?
How come we just can't get along?
And if you are one of the fortunate one's that happen to actually have a REAL good relationship with your sibling, please share your secrets to success LOL I'm sure a lot of us would like to know.
*If there is an issue that isn't on the list yet? Feel free to post it.*