Okay, a me and some of my friends noticed a kid who was acting really obnoxiously at the movie theater a few days ago. We got into the discussion of whether or not parents should spank their children. I personally was on the fence. I personally was spanked on occasion and I do think it benefit me, but I'm not sure if I would do it to my own children or not. I guess I'll list some of the positive and negative aspects of this issue:
Positive:
It gets the point across that the parent is serious.
(Claim)It teaches children how to behave.
(Claim)It gets across that something is wrong even if a child may not understand it at that given moment.
Negative:
It is painful.
Some parents may overdo it.
(Claim) It is harmful to the children in the long run(Mentally).
(Claim) It teaches children how to lie ("I didn't do it")
(Claim) It results in children being violent later in life.
Now, I would just like to note that I added the word "Claim" to some of these, because some people say that spanking does these things while others disagree, and to the best of my knowledge, the ones without the word claim, almost everyone agrees on.
Now, I'll input my opinion on these.
I do think that it gets the point across that the parent is serious, and that the children will know that they will get punished if they do not behave. And as there will be instances when a child simply cannot understand a given reason that something is wrong, and continue to do it, at the very least they will know that doing it will result in something unpleasant for them.
As to the Negative side, yes it is painful, but that is kind of the point, now I am not saying that you take a whip and scar your child, but a hand from to the rear rarely leaves more than a red mark (Unless you're superman or something). Now, I personally do not think that it harms the mentally in the long run, a child will know that all of their actions can have an effect on your future. If you do something wrong when you are an adult, then you will be arrested, and in depending on what and where you did, you could get as much as the death penalty. It seems to me that not teaching your child that your actions have consequences, will only harm them in the long run, given them the idea that they can do whatever they want. Now, yes maybe it teaches children to lie, but so can anything. Asking them if their homework is done "Yep"(NOT) etc. etc. Perhaps it makes children being violent, but if being exposed to violence at a young age = Being a violent person later in life, then why they heck do so many parents not spank their children and yet let them play COD? Its a hypocritical double-standard.
Now there are undoubtedly many more arguments to this issue, I just wanted to name a few.
I would also like to post an article that includes some statistics
Go nuts.
Positive:
It gets the point across that the parent is serious.
(Claim)It teaches children how to behave.
(Claim)It gets across that something is wrong even if a child may not understand it at that given moment.
Negative:
It is painful.
Some parents may overdo it.
(Claim) It is harmful to the children in the long run(Mentally).
(Claim) It teaches children how to lie ("I didn't do it")
(Claim) It results in children being violent later in life.
Now, I would just like to note that I added the word "Claim" to some of these, because some people say that spanking does these things while others disagree, and to the best of my knowledge, the ones without the word claim, almost everyone agrees on.
Now, I'll input my opinion on these.
I do think that it gets the point across that the parent is serious, and that the children will know that they will get punished if they do not behave. And as there will be instances when a child simply cannot understand a given reason that something is wrong, and continue to do it, at the very least they will know that doing it will result in something unpleasant for them.
As to the Negative side, yes it is painful, but that is kind of the point, now I am not saying that you take a whip and scar your child, but a hand from to the rear rarely leaves more than a red mark (Unless you're superman or something). Now, I personally do not think that it harms the mentally in the long run, a child will know that all of their actions can have an effect on your future. If you do something wrong when you are an adult, then you will be arrested, and in depending on what and where you did, you could get as much as the death penalty. It seems to me that not teaching your child that your actions have consequences, will only harm them in the long run, given them the idea that they can do whatever they want. Now, yes maybe it teaches children to lie, but so can anything. Asking them if their homework is done "Yep"(NOT) etc. etc. Perhaps it makes children being violent, but if being exposed to violence at a young age = Being a violent person later in life, then why they heck do so many parents not spank their children and yet let them play COD? Its a hypocritical double-standard.
Now there are undoubtedly many more arguments to this issue, I just wanted to name a few.
I would also like to post an article that includes some statistics
Go nuts.
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