I think he meant when men are hurt emotionally by women. I'm just as emotionally hurt as anyone else (perhaps even more so, but that's just me), yet I'll try to hide it. It's not because I'm supposed to be all masculine about it; it's because I just want to wrap it up inside myself and put it away and not dwell on it. I think that perhaps women have more experience of dealing with emotional pain because of high school (I've heard girls are pretty much brazy citches to each other in high school, way way more so than boys are to each other).They don't say "ow that hurt", but they (including myself) usually grunt when they're hit if they're playing though.
As for physical hurting of men by women, women seem to be under the impression that men can take it, regardless of the actual amount of pain (i.e. lots and lots is acceptable). On the other hand, women see men physically hurting women even a bit is detestable. Utter double standards.