I have no problem saying "Wow, I'd like to take that man and make beautiful hot steamy love to him until neither of us can use the bathroom properly anymore." in front of my straight friends or anything else that's nuts to be honest. THey laugh. THey enjoy the fact that I don't feel like I have to hide these things. It would make them uncomfortable if I was always saying how hot they were, but I'm not. If your friends can't handle you being yourself then they have gotta problem, not you. To be honest I have no gay friends. Where I currently live anyway. I have one very feminine friend...but despite his personality and appearance, he loves vagina. Ahahaha, just, don't sweat it. Don't fret trying to find gay company. Obviously I'd love some gay friends, but, honestly, I'd probably just prefer to have a boyfriend. After you finally meet some gay friends you realize that they're just competition.
[Or, so you don't take me seriously, you realize that you may have just met an awesome spectacular person with whom you want to drink appletinis and cry at chick flicks with. One of my bestest best friends is gay, but very very very sadly, I don't live in the same province anymore.
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