I'm a female actually! I'm here as a supporter (or Heteroromantic Asexual.) ouo. But I do know he is straight, due to his chats with us in the group of friends.
@If U Seek Amy; thank you for your advice! I'll certainly keep that in mind!
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I'm a female actually! I'm here as a supporter (or Heteroromantic Asexual.) ouo. But I do know he is straight, due to his chats with us in the group of friends.
@If U Seek Amy; thank you for your advice! I'll certainly keep that in mind!
oh, my apologies, i did not know that
IrieFuse
Unify To Thrive
Is it bad that I have trouble developing feelings for people? i'm 18 and bi and it's been a while since i felt anything for anybody more than just a crush. sometimes i worry that i'll end up lonely just because i can't seem to find anybody i'm even interested in. i hope somebody can relate kuz i hate feeling lonely even though i'm ok being single for now.
I know the feeling. Although my issue isn't exactly the same. I've only ever been in one relationship and it didn't go over or end well. Not to mention he wasn't exactly a pleasant guy. Before that, I had never experienced romantic attraction to anyone, other than some of the attractive faces I saw on tv. I still have a little bit of that issue today, but I do develope romantic feelings now, I just don't EXPRESS them. Especially because most are crushes and I'm never sure if that person feels the same.
I mean. My current crush has been a crush since mid-March and we've still just remained very close friends.
But I myself, have trouble developing sexual attraction to people. Usually not thinking about things in that general sense. So I do understand your issue.
Ah its all good! I get it a lot actually. It's rather tricky to determine gender online without going to check. (at least in my opinion it is.)
i think its pretty normal, i mean like you said, so far you havent find anyone you're interested it, give it sometime and hopefully mr. or mrs. right will appear ^w^
thank you ^w^ and yeah its sometimes hard
If I ever date this guy I'm getting close to (and the chances are somewhat high) then he will be in the exact same situation you are in.
My advice, coming from his side?
DOn't pressure him. Try to understand him. At times, you will be frustrated that you won't be able to do some things because he is closeted, and that frustration will endanger your relationship. Just remember that he will feel even worse than you do, for he will feel guilty for putting you under his own problems and having you carry his burden as well.
Be understanding and talk about things. Never let any problem you have with having to keep him closeted and being (overtly) discreet boil up.
I'm pretty sure there was something else I had to answer, but I forget. Sorry guys if I accidentally ignored you.
Liltwick
Just your Sleepy FIzzy Mod
Well then welcome to the club. Just our little dainty corner of angst and whatever.
So anyways how is everyone as of late? I guess my hormones are kicking in badly even though my brain's telling them to shut up. I should be more focused on writing and working on my Honors English summer program, but instead all I can think of is being in a relationship. I guess that's how the typical teenager is after, besides I procrastinate pretty badly as well...
So anyways how is everyone as of late? I guess my hormones are kicking in badly even though my brain's telling them to shut up. I should be more focused on writing and working on my Honors English summer program, but instead all I can think of is being in a relationship. I guess that's how the typical teenager is after, besides I procrastinate pretty badly as well...
Frozen Sunset
Ugh
BB!!!!! Welcome aboard. arrr
LOL dainty? xD speak for yourself
Life as of late has been confusing but good too. I have a really bad migraine though, and wanna go to the concert in the park tonight....but I'm hurting pretty bad. lol
Congratz and tell Shadow he can thank me for that happening to him lol
As for me, just got a new job, BF, and new car. So I'm good right now.
melonjaywalk
Member
..Why do people not wanna' be single it's like, the greatest thing ever.
I love being single. Seriously
tried to break up with my boyfriend like a million times.
Because I was making him real unhappy
just by being me.
It was complicated. But eventually it actually worked. You know when you get 'stuck' in a bad relationship and don't end it because yr scared? But then you do and looking back..
Realize that it should have
been done earlier.
Also.
This interested me Finch.
Make yr thought life and yr creative life the same thing.
Does that work?
That's what I do or something.
I figure that an idea doesn't count unless it's represented somewhere, somehow. The more
it abides by other peoples' standards of 'art' the better.
I mean I
know that's a problem but hey. Play by other peoples' rules 'till they notice you or something.
Mm. I wanted to say something about this but can't because
I'd only be saying
what's already been said.
That nobody should be bashing anyone but 'straight pride' is still the dumbest idea.
Is that the argument?
I could take it further but I won't unless asked because I'm probably saying dumb things.
Winner.
I can't deal with tales of homophobia or anything or things. I can't relate. I just can't do it. It's a good thing there's more empathetic members of this club though, I guess..
I love being single. Seriously
tried to break up with my boyfriend like a million times.
Because I was making him real unhappy
just by being me.
It was complicated. But eventually it actually worked. You know when you get 'stuck' in a bad relationship and don't end it because yr scared? But then you do and looking back..
Realize that it should have
been done earlier.
Also.
This interested me Finch.
Make yr thought life and yr creative life the same thing.
Does that work?
That's what I do or something.
I figure that an idea doesn't count unless it's represented somewhere, somehow. The more
it abides by other peoples' standards of 'art' the better.
I mean I
know that's a problem but hey. Play by other peoples' rules 'till they notice you or something.
Mm. I wanted to say something about this but can't because
I'd only be saying
what's already been said.
That nobody should be bashing anyone but 'straight pride' is still the dumbest idea.
Is that the argument?
I could take it further but I won't unless asked because I'm probably saying dumb things.
Winner.
I can't deal with tales of homophobia or anything or things. I can't relate. I just can't do it. It's a good thing there's more empathetic members of this club though, I guess..
Welcome to the club, Cinna.
How have I been lately?
Well, in fashion completely unlike everything I am or ever was in my entire life, I'm kinda turning into a *****.
Not sure if want. But...
CONFESSION CORNER
I have this huge craving to be wanted. To be desired. So whenever some guy or some girl shows interest in me (which, up until now, was SUPER RARE or just didn't happen at all) I don't want to deny them that. I don't want to "play hard to get" or whatever because I'm afraid that they'll stop wanting me and chasing me, and I don't want that. So I get intimate with people I hardly know... Even considering (and been offered) causal sex, something I never really craved before. And I like that people crave me like that, even when those said people in question aren't people I desire, myself.
Gah, damn it. Why do I have so many unresolved childhood/teenage problems.
How have I been lately?
Well, in fashion completely unlike everything I am or ever was in my entire life, I'm kinda turning into a *****.
Not sure if want. But...
CONFESSION CORNER
I have this huge craving to be wanted. To be desired. So whenever some guy or some girl shows interest in me (which, up until now, was SUPER RARE or just didn't happen at all) I don't want to deny them that. I don't want to "play hard to get" or whatever because I'm afraid that they'll stop wanting me and chasing me, and I don't want that. So I get intimate with people I hardly know... Even considering (and been offered) causal sex, something I never really craved before. And I like that people crave me like that, even when those said people in question aren't people I desire, myself.
Gah, damn it. Why do I have so many unresolved childhood/teenage problems.
Schade
Metallic Wonder
CONFESSION CORNER (lol, let's make this a thing here)
I like setting Things on fire. I haven't figured out why yet, but I really do seem to enjoy it. it has always been like that. Fires just facinates me!
And Dude, it is not ncommon wanting to be wanted. I was like that until recently, actually. you just have to bear With it until mr. right guy pops up, and it will sort itself out.
I like setting Things on fire. I haven't figured out why yet, but I really do seem to enjoy it. it has always been like that. Fires just facinates me!
And Dude, it is not ncommon wanting to be wanted. I was like that until recently, actually. you just have to bear With it until mr. right guy pops up, and it will sort itself out.
Frozen Sunset
Ugh
Purple hair is not that great >.> For some reason when I was like 16-18 my hair was naturally turning purple and I didn't like it, now it's almost completely brown which is good
CONFESSION CORNER
I use being troubled as an excuse to drink and use drugs, but I also do vice-versa. Truth is I'm just a mess and it's all my own fault xD
CONFESSION CORNER:
I love destroying things. I will rip up paper to shreds, break pencils, crush things with my hands, see myself bleed (from scabs, don't worry[okay, maybe I do poke myself with pins sometimes]), shattering things, and hitting things with the hammer. This is why my classmates are afraid when I have a pair of scissors. I am also entranced by flames. Because of my love of blood, I tend to laugh when I get hurt unless it's really painful...then I laugh and cry at the same time. I also sometimes like causing myself pain, but I feel rather guilty about causing others pain. Not that I don't like to, but... It's probably why people predict that I'm going to be in the papers for murder.
I love destroying things. I will rip up paper to shreds, break pencils, crush things with my hands, see myself bleed (from scabs, don't worry[okay, maybe I do poke myself with pins sometimes]), shattering things, and hitting things with the hammer. This is why my classmates are afraid when I have a pair of scissors. I am also entranced by flames. Because of my love of blood, I tend to laugh when I get hurt unless it's really painful...then I laugh and cry at the same time. I also sometimes like causing myself pain, but I feel rather guilty about causing others pain. Not that I don't like to, but... It's probably why people predict that I'm going to be in the papers for murder.
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