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Tuskie Tyrant Yoko Kurama
Fancy footwork
I was like that in the past. I believe I was in middle school still and I did not want any gay guy talking to me in public because I feared I'd get picked on. But, I matured and I don't care what people say about me and my friends, well I little bit I do. ._. The only thing is I wouldn't want them around my family since they're very homophobic and I wouldn't be able to forgive myself if they got hurt because of me.
KyuremFreeze
Hello, b0ss
i know how you feel. but as i grew up i realized that all the stereotypes were false. my dad is very homophobic he even thinks that AIDS came into existince as a result of homosexuality. it is aactualy a natural part of a mokeys body. so basicaly, aids exists because some guy tried knocking up an animal while visiting africa.
Peter Quill
star-lord
It really isn't. I hated myself for years because I was gay and I'm still frustrated as hell because of it. It just makes life a lot harder and my life is already hard enough without needing sexuality and intimacy matters thrown in.
That doesn't make you a homophobe lmfao.
I can't say that I do. The way they perpetuate stereotypes is sort of annoying but at the same time I can't be bothered to care. They're their own human beings, and I can't hate them because they talk and act a certain way? That seems terribly shallow. That and I have to be thankful to stereotypical gay people who actually made society realize that being gay was not a mental illness and whatnot.
Being rude is another thing altogether.
melonjaywalk
Member
Wellllllll that's the part that's interesting. Okay maybe not. What I mean is.. Just.. When you / I say 'Yes I'm gay but don't go to gay bars for _whatever reason_'.. Is it because you / I genuinely don't like the 'scene' for legitimate reasons or.. Because we're internally homophobic and at an extreme level, just don't like gay people, even if that includes ourselves, like, unconsciously, out of shame or something?
I think we all know that it's actually the former reason.
But..
It's hard to explain to people,
sometimes.
I'm sure I'm not the only guy who's had to argue for his case that they're not internally homophobic, and that there are just parts of the uh.. 'subculture' that are legitimately just *bad*.
Right?
Why do so many gay guys refer to eachother as 'girls'. I am not a girl. Please do not call me that. No I don't use grindr. Having to say things like this all the time..
KyuremFreeze
Hello, b0ss
soo... hows it going people?
50/50 same old crap mixed with a few new things. Seems my BF is a tad bit clingy, didn't let me out of his site today.
AbFabTrainerKira
hOnK :o)
Confession Corner
I am drunk as balls, (yay i'm finally 21 loll) so tke what I say with grain f salt
I don't fel lik i'll amount to much. i'm in my 3rd year of comun college andve gotten D's an F's my entir tmie. my parentsn don't giv me any other option tho. it's either go 2 colleg or ur a bum in their eyes, and I hate it.
I am drunk as balls, (yay i'm finally 21 loll) so tke what I say with grain f salt
I don't fel lik i'll amount to much. i'm in my 3rd year of comun college andve gotten D's an F's my entir tmie. my parentsn don't giv me any other option tho. it's either go 2 colleg or ur a bum in their eyes, and I hate it.
melonjaywalk
Member
Wow. That is like..
Hillarious haha.
When I'm in that state I can at least spell properly but it's
probably not as funny.
AbFabTrainerKira
hOnK :o)
Oh dear god, why did I post that?
Anyway, it is true. I don't wanna go to college anymore, but they're forcing me
KyuremFreeze
Hello, b0ss
just tell them. whats the point of doing something you dont want to do?
AbFabTrainerKira
hOnK :o)
They're conservatives. If I don't go to college and make a name for myself, they consider me a bum. Even though I've been busting my balls at a job for 3 years with no signs of leaving.
FrozenConstellation
There for grace I go
Dear lord. More peeps posting when they're drunk. Yippeeee////shot.
what did i just read
ANYWAYS
My parents have this anti-homosexual attitude and they were snooping through my computer. and found stuffs.
Stuffs. (namely conversation with ,my friend that i came out to)
And now they're sending me to a pychologist to "reform" me (wtf)
The world sucks -_-
ANYWAYS
My parents have this anti-homosexual attitude and they were snooping through my computer. and found stuffs.
Stuffs. (namely conversation with ,my friend that i came out to)
And now they're sending me to a pychologist to "reform" me (wtf)
The world sucks -_-
KyuremFreeze
Hello, b0ss
what is the world coming to... religion cant "reform" a gay preson, nor can a pychologist.just stay strong, my friends.
Blue Snover
Cold as ice
They should trust you to make your own decisions, rather than checking up on you.
There's no way to 'reform' someone, you're either gay or you're not and they should accept you for who you are.
I hope that they come to see that there's nothing wrong with you
My dad took me to a place like that for a month or two...it was his money, I figure. he still thinks there's something I can do to 'change,' or whatever, but we don't discuss it. Anyways, while I was being 'counseled' by the guy, it sort of cemented my lack of faith in humanity, because the guy is married, and has a daughter, but he's not attracted to women, and all...I mean, he's not miserable, and now that I'm more open towards religion, I can see that celibacy is a thing which could be respected, but it still was foreign to me. Anyway, just as it was his life, it's your's too. Just talk with the guy or whatever, and after a few months, I'd assume your parents will get tired of paying a hundred dollars every other week to 'fix' you (counseling is so expensive, you don't even know)
...I don't know if that's encouraging at all D:
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