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The Gay/Lesbian/Bisexual Alliance Club

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Volts

Volt Tackle
Strict?

I would'nt last in you family

i know, thats why i plan to move away again
i never feel myself there, im always pressured and i hate lying to the rest of my family about my sexuality
its not only sexuality, they wouldnt even allow me to dye my hair, get a tattoo or even something as simple as wearing a necklace or bracelets

getting a tattoo i can see why they'll refuse but the rest?
 

R2J

R.I.P #31
That's a very good idea, R2J, that is what I would have done too if I knew my parents would freak out over it.
And if they disown you, disown them back, and everything will work out fine.

Of course, that is not what happened when i told my mother, who took it way better than anticipated. I love my mom

Shh nobody must know my sercerts!

Yea my parents didn't like it at all.
 

Godric

Petrew Petrew
far too strict

im moving out soon and hopefully i can manage my life as i want it to be

Keep your head up, it may sound like a cliché but the more you push on them the more they'll see that it's not "just a phase."

They may be family, but it'll ruin you before anything if you force yourself to live a lie for their sake. You seem headstrong, so you'll do just fine once you're out of their house and in an apartment or house of your own.
 

Nyoah

The Dark Azure
Keep your head up, it may sound like a cliché but the more you push on them the more they'll see that it's not "just a phase."

They may be family, but it'll ruin you before anything if you force yourself to live a lie for their sake. You seem headstrong, so you'll do just fine once you're out of their house and in an apartment or house of your own.

thanks
i've got motivated to follow my dream, not theirs, theirs is for me to be the perfect religious man, but thats not who i am
my dream is to live a happy life with a guy i like, not live a lie and marry a woman because they want me to, even bloodline wont make me their perfect son
i hope one day they'll understand though
 

Darato

(o,..,o)
Posted the first part of this in the AA Family club, but thought you'd guys like to talk about it as well.

By a kid I know from school, and a friend of a friend


We learn from history. If a Trojan Horse appeared on our border in the middle of a war, would we let it into our country? No, because we have learned from history. Well, we have a history book that is very important; God's scriptures. So why do we let gay marriage enter into our country? Have we not read what happened to Soddom and Gomorrah? And how do we somehow convince ourselves (and others) that God will stay his hand and somehow protect us when we continue in sexual sin, abortion, drugs, pornography, lying, cheating, stealing, etc.? God will not protect us if we continue to trample under our feet His laws. Sadly this wonderful country will one day be destroyed because of our own wickedness, unless we repent.

This is not just an issue of gay marriage. It is a shoutout against ALL sin. Whether it be drugs, pornography, murder, rape, incest, violence, abortion, etc. So who defines sin? Who defines what is right and wrong? Not man, not the government, not EVEN religion. (If the POPE came out tomorrow and said murder is OK, would we go murder? NO because we ALL INHERENTLY KNOW that murder is WRONG.) GOD defines sin. He has given us each a conscience. We all INHERENTLY know that the above-mentioned practices (and many other things) are WRONG. All blessings are based on natural laws that reward us for good choices. If we choose not to obey, we suffer the consequences of our own disobedience. If we allow our country to permit murder, we will eventually die out. If we allow Abortion, we will eventually die out because all babies will be aborted. If we legalize stealing, people will become lazy, wont go to work, and will instead focus their efforts on stealing, and our economy fall into ruin (as well as our safety). If we permit laws that allow everyone in the nation to carry around Nuclear weapons, chances are good this world will explode pretty soon. That is the point of this. When the government legalizes (and encourages) "sin," destruction, sadness, and misery will ALWAYS follow. Well, if you don't believe me, read history books, read the bible, and pay attention to current news. We are becoming more wicked, and we daily see more destruction. I simply encourage all do their part to leave their sins, and do their best to protect ourselves from self-destruction. Alma 41:10 Wickedness never was happiness. I'd just love to see a happier world, but the means we use to achieve that go in direct opposition to the laws of God. If we want to be happy, we must follow GOD's laws and accept GOD's blessings no matter what religion, organization, party, or group we are a part

L.F.D.
 

CGS

Shadow Lucario
And how do we somehow convince ourselves (and others) that God will stay his hand and somehow protect us when we continue in sexual sin, abortion, drugs, pornography, lying, cheating, stealing, etc.?

Nobody's pure, we all commit sins in our day to day lives. But, there's no big deal about it. At least that's how I see it.

We are becoming more wicked, and we daily see more destruction.

Yes, I agree with this.

If we want to be happy, we must follow GOD's laws and accept GOD's blessings no matter what religion, organization, party, or group we are a part

Uh, No thanks. I see no point to be honest, if he hasn't stopped it, then I see no point to follow.

No offence to anyone else here.
 

Volts

Volt Tackle
Sins are an everyday thing, you can run from them. The top one would have to be lying, that's used by everybody. And whoever says they haven't committed a sin in their life is lying then and there.
 

Corrosion

Hello Kitty =/= Cat
This is why I don't give a f*** about religion (okay, maybe I'm Daoist, but that doesn't involve restricting people's rights). This kind of crap. Those kind of bigots. On another note, that makes me want to punch him in the face.

Sins? You can tell me straight to me face that I'm going to Hell, but what the heck do I care? Unless, of course, they try to send me off prematurely.

Sadly this wonderful country will one day be destroyed because of our own wickedness, unless we repent.
I'd have to disagree about the "wonderful" part as we're merely falling deeper into the abyss, but the wickedness? I do agree with the wickedness, but not the repent. Repenting will get us nowhere--actively fixing things will. Why does he consider abortion a sin? Crazy fundamental Christians. I propose a new name for such nutjobs: Christains.

Are you guys boycotting the upcoming movie Ender's Game? The book is by Orson Scott Card, a known bigot and anti-gay-rights nutcase.
 

Schade

Metallic Wonder
Oh, we're talking relogion now?
Besides Karma, I don't really believe in any of that stuff.
Well, I'd say this world is pretty f***ed already. Religion should not be part of politics, as it is the main reason for war and conflicts in the world.

And God is not the 'master' of my life, I am.
"Lead me not into temptation. I'll find the way myself"
 

Volts

Volt Tackle
Oh, we're talking relogion now?
Besides Karma, I don't really believe in any of that stuff.
Well, I'd say this world is pretty f***ed already. Religion should not be part of politics, as it is the main reason for war and conflicts in the world.

And God is not the 'master' of my life, I am.
"Lead me not into temptation. I'll find the way myself"

Have no idea if its the past talking in my head or what. But this pops in my mind "You can lead a horse to water, but you can never make it drink".

And I agree that religion is behind most of the crap that goes on in the world today, all the nutjobs coming out, all the idiots believing in the "End of the World" speeches. And I'm not talking about Christians, this is all the religions. Why have 10 (give or take) religions to believe in 1 god? And then you have the greek gods. And I believe their are two others gods in some part of the world.
 

CGS

Shadow Lucario
Oh, we're talking relogion now?
Besides Karma, I don't really believe in any of that stuff.
Well, I'd say this world is pretty f***ed already. Religion should not be part of politics, as it is the main reason for war and conflicts in the world.

And God is not the 'master' of my life, I am.
"Lead me not into temptation. I'll find the way myself"

What is karma? A sign of Bad Luck? Who believes in Luck? Going to run to the other side of the rainbow and find a pot of gold? No, I don't believe in luck, karma, or faith. I see no point in it, also feelings I don't see why we have them, personally I gave up the feeling "Pain" a long time ago.

And God is not the 'master' of my life, I am.

Your in control of your life, nobody else. The actions you do is under your control. God is not in control of you, you and only you can pick and do what you want.
 

Schade

Metallic Wonder
I've been convinced too frikkin' much not to believe in it. lol
And as my right hand's in constant pain today, pain is very much present.

Thank you. That was pretty much the esscense of my sentence. lol
 

CGS

Shadow Lucario
I've been convinced too frikkin' much not to believe in it. lol
And as my right hand's in constant pain today, pain is very much present.

Thank you. That was pretty much the esscense of my sentence. lol

What I meant, is I can't feel pain. You can take a knife and stab me and I won't budge.

I try my best lol
 

Schade

Metallic Wonder
Teach me, master. lol

Yeah, I liked that. I suck at doing that myself
 

Schade

Metallic Wonder
But it always come back.

That's way too complicated. lol
Btw, having a boyfriend is kinda awakening my old paranoia. Is that a bad sign?
 

CGS

Shadow Lucario
But it always come back.

That's way too complicated. lol
Btw, having a boyfriend is kinda awakening my old paranoia. Is that a bad sign?

Depends on what it is, I have an ex that has me on high alerts at the moment from a part of the PM he sent me. Which I will not post due to the fact I may get a PM cussing me out afterwards. And not saying who either... Anyways, as I said it depends on what.
 

Schade

Metallic Wonder
Just the regular Overly-Attached-Boyfriend stuff. I'm so obsessed With how People think of me that my psychology teacher told me it might be paranoia, which would sound reasonable as I have struggled With it earlier in my life.
It's just stupid, really. lol
 

CGS

Shadow Lucario
Just the regular Overly-Attached-Boyfriend stuff. I'm so obsessed With how People think of me that my psychology teacher told me it might be paranoia, which would sound reasonable as I have struggled With it earlier in my life.
It's just stupid, really. lol

Let me guess, think he's cheating or fouling around if he's not back around the time he says he will be or when you two are apart though out the day? I've seen that, have a friend that follows his BF to work and stays in the parking lot watching him work.
 
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