Question, do you like the idea of a sideline/2nd option? I mean, I don't like it because it makes the person sound like they're less than your first option. But, some say it's smart because if your first option doesn't work out, you'll have that person "waiting". So, what do you guys think?
im not sure i understand this
do you mean planning to date someone else if you couldnt date the first?
if so then i really hate this idea, personally this makes me feel like its just a game of selfish desires and not really love
thats just my thought though