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The Gay/Lesbian/Bisexual Alliance Club

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Captain Jigglypuff

Leader of Jigglypuff Army
Been talking to a guy online lately and the best part is he plays Pokemon too! We've traded a couple of Pokemon and I helped him evolve them.
 

Pyroli

Banned
Sorry for you, Mogar. Your relationship sounded so promising.
Oh, I didn't remember you were asexual. I know this is kind off dumb question, but do you make it clear to your datees?

Yeah I though so too but I'm alright.

Um, I kinda do. It depends on the situation because it's not really something that comes up in conversation. Most people just assume I'm heterosexual. If things get more serious like dating I do make it very clear, as I did with this boy.
 

Creyk

Well-Known Member
Been talking to a guy online lately and the best part is he plays Pokemon too! We've traded a couple of Pokemon and I helped him evolve them.

That sounds like a fun relationship XD
Plus it's great if you have common interests with your partner, just imagine being hyped for the next games together...
 

Hyper Chibi Absol

The Dark Goddess
Hmm.... But I thought an attraction to both genders would be considered bisexual. I know I'm not cause I've only been attracted to one girl my entire life and several men.
 

rovert

Exploding Biscuits!!
Hmm.... But I thought an attraction to both genders would be considered bisexual. I know I'm not cause I've only been attracted to one girl my entire life and several men.

The thing with bisexuality that people tend to flat out ignore and claim doesn't exist is that it's any amount of attraction to two or more genders. If you're attracted more to men but still have attraction to females, it's bi. If you're attracted to people no matter what their gender is, it's pan

Speaking of this stuff, I've been thinking some (even though I hate labels and don't care at all) about if I'm pan. I'm just like I don't care what gender you are. If you're a nice person, I would definitely be willing to be with you, and I don't need a relationship before being physically attracted, but I know it definitely makes the physical attraction stronger for me.
 

Hyper Chibi Absol

The Dark Goddess
But then there's the fact that, from what I've read, if you're attracted to someone whose a transexual, you're automatically considered pan. That's why my situation kinda fell under a grey area since the only girl I found sexually attractive is trans.
 

Darato

(o,..,o)
But then there's the fact that, from what I've read, if you're attracted to someone whose a transexual, you're automatically considered pan. That's why my situation kinda fell under a grey area since the only girl I found sexually attractive is trans.

Personally I don't see it that way. I think you can still be bi or straight and be attracted to that person.

So Utah is trying to make it illegal to marry outside a church in response to equal marriage rights passing. Anyone else seeing anything like this in their state?

L.F.D.
 

rovert

Exploding Biscuits!!
But then there's the fact that, from what I've read, if you're attracted to someone whose a transexual, you're automatically considered pan. That's why my situation kinda fell under a grey area since the only girl I found sexually attractive is trans.

Like I said, it's two or more genders. It doesn't have to be purely cis-male and cis-female. It just needs to be two. If it's guys and transexual women, that's fine. Honestly, it's a matter of what you want to identify as.

As for the working around the making it legal in all 50 states, my state had equal marriage already (CT), but I know Texas passed a law making it legal for someone to not perform a marriage if it goes against their religious beliefs (aka everyone in Texas who is able to actually perform a wedding is able to say that they won't do it because it's a same sex couple and that's not what God wants)
 

Tattooed Tooth

So many flags!
Oh hey guys, long time no talk n' shiiiiit.
[...]
So tell me about y'all, how are you guys!?!?!?
Hey Sir, long time!
Glad to know you are so fine. :)
I've been kind of busy... Previous posts and/or PM for details. ;)

The thing is he just came out a few months before we met and he realized he jumped into a relationship to fast and he doesn't feel ready for one and the other thing is he is from a small town and he got a job in his filed in his hometown and that is a once in a life time thing for him and the idea of moving to a city gives him anxiety and the job I want I will get better paying job in the area I'm from and I said to him I would move there even if I wouldn't get a good of a job as I would in the city I'm from but he said that I shouldn't give up my dream job for him.
Oh, that's sad. But things might change, specially with jobs!
I know it's fool to get so attached to those randomness, but "never" is too harsh. >.>

Yeah I though so too but I'm alright.

Um, I kinda do. It depends on the situation because it's not really something that comes up in conversation. Most people just assume I'm heterosexual. If things get more serious like dating I do make it very clear, as I did with this boy.
Good. So that wasn't a misunderstanding. It looks like he underestimated your claim. >.>


Now, grandma hinted again yesterday. It was about LGBTs being murdered. She commented how some people can't let other people live their lives alone. Now I'm hopeful for her accepting me again. x)
 

Gamzee Makara

Flirtin' With Disaster
Came out as Bi/Pan last year.

Surprised I didn't find this group earlier.

I'll join.
 

Manchee

extra toasty
Hiiiii everyone. My name is Brad. I'm going to be a senior in college this fall and I'm looking for a group of cool people to talk to while that's going on to keep my mind off of all the classes I should be focusing on, lol. I identify as pansexual and back in January started dating my first boyfriend :)

idk what else to say at the moment hahaha how is everyone's week going?
 

Willow's Tara

The Bewitched
Hello everyone, I am so sorry I haven't come by in a while, just been busy doing other things, writing novels.
Oh and meeting the woman in my signature, you know the one who's remained in my sig for about five years XD. So in other words, I met Amber Benson in Adelaide back in April for Comic Con, didn't just meet her, I had a platinum ticket so I met her at the meet and greet, got to have a great chat with her, she's seriously more awesome then I ever thought she was, kind, gentle, understand, hilarious and even if she is 38, has such a young spirit. Also had the dinner ticket with her, it was the most epic night of my life, I was sitting next to her and it was, she made the dinner so much more epic, and I got to sing with her, Under your spell, I wasn't good but still lol.
I got an hug from her as well, and at the end of the CC a personal selfie when I went to see her for the last time.

Saw her again in Melbourne, the rules of CC was more stricter though, couldn't really get a selfie with Amber even though she wanted to, but she was awesome, at the end of that CC she came from the panel and let me take a quick selfie with her, if she comes to Brisbane/Sydney Comic con, I will probably see her again, maybe not ask for another selfie as I don't want to risk getting either into trouble (Emma Caulifeld, Anya from Buffy had gotten a scolding apparently when she took a selfie with someone else, so don't want to risk someone getting really peeved off at Amber if she does it the third time). Also had dinner with Amber too, was awesome but sadly it was only an hour, as they had both Emma and Amber dinner tickets together so the two rotated.

Anyways, I figure it would be good to come by and update you guys, I know a lot of the older members who may remember me talking about her from the first five years of this club's creation just may be very happy ;), of course since meeting her in Adelaide I can't stop talking about it, and why not one of my dreams came real, and Amber made it feel like the rest were possible. (I actually told her she had a huge impact on me for years, and I thanked her for being alive basically, that's when she hugged me, might have been the reason the personal selfie happened later hehe)


To all new members straight to the last person I welcomed, which might have been a year ago, welcome! All is welcome so don't feel like you have to ask :)
 
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Kdude146

Well-Known Member
Oh, that's sad. But things might change, specially with jobs!
I know it's fool to get so attached to those randomness, but "never" is too harsh. >.>.

I know "never" is kind of a harsh word too say and who knows maybe someday the two of us will find away to make it work but for now I have finally decided to let go of the idea of him because I can't be happy if I keep living in the past and wishing for something that I can't have right now.
 

Xena

Warrior Princess
Hi, may I join? *presents Certified Lesbian card*
I came out to my friends and mother when I was around 15 years old. 21 now and just recently got outed to my father and other family members (while I was not present.) There was, surprisingly, no bad reaction from them, but I haven't talked about it with any of them. To be honest I have no interest in discussing it. I don't see the point unless I were to talk about my girlfriend.
 
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Tattooed Tooth

So many flags!
I know what you mean, Xena. That's the only reason why I haven't talked to family yet (except mom).

And welcome. ^^
 

Amaterasu123

New Member
Late but this happened to me with my current best friend actually. I met him in Grade 9, we were both fourteen at the time and felt instant attraction from the moment we first spoke; he was cute, nice, funny, we both liked the same kind of videogames, and best of all we had such similar tastes in music. I really liked him, so as most semi-awkward fourteen year olds do, I messaged him every day
on Facebook; hoping to learn more about him and maybe slip some hints that I was super interested. He had an older sister, only a year older than us so not a significant age gap and I was friends with her as well so I had a sleepover at their house the one night and told his sister that I had a massive thing for her little bro.

... Now at this point he wasn't out, but his mother and sister knew that he was completely gay and not interested in girls at all. His sister gave me encouragement but went to him the next day after I left and told him I had a massive thing for him. Surprisingly nothing changed between us, and we actually became closer, come grade 10 I still had super strong feelings but one night while I was hanging out with him after school he told me that he was actually gay and felt that he could trust me as we had become so close. You see, I was frustrated at first but I accepted it gradually and we just continued with our friendship.

Four years later and he's still my best friend, he means the world to me and he's honestly like a brother to me. I love him a lot but in a different way, him and I even talk every day, never missing a beat.

I'm not sure if this helps you out at all but to keep it brief, maintain your friendship no matter what, and learn to love him as a friend.
Thank you for your answer. <3 <3
Yup. I hope we can continue to be friends, because I like him, and did so before I started to get these feelings. He's kind, and has a special personality and a sense of humour.
Now it's less than 3 weeks before we meet again. Soon I'll count every day, heh.

EDIT: Also, congrats. I'm happy you have such a good friend. :)
 
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Xena

Warrior Princess
On the topic of pansexuality, as it was discussed above, I find it strange to consider trans people as a separate category as male/female? Aren't there efforts in modern times to get people to understand that trans woman = woman, trans man = man? To consider trans people a separate gender seems counter-productive to me.

The reason I'm saying this is because of the notion put forward that a person is pansexual if they are attracted to trans people.
 

iceicebaby

Ice/Ice Trainer
I'm so glad to see this, I just joined Serebii *-* I live in such a small town, online groups like this really colour my life XD
*wave at everyone*
 
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