Pokemon Whisperer Natural Harmonia Gropius
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I've only had like two genuine crushes and that was years ago. Now I've vowed to never be like that again, so far so good.
Right now, I'm a complicated situation where I kinda like this guy in one of my classes I used to hate two years ago. He used to be annoying and overconfident, especially towards me. Now, I've been talking with him again since we have classes together again. He's gotten a little more mature and even lost some weight. Still acts like an idiot at times, so I still call him out on his BS. I tend to be overly mean to him for no reason, probably because I'm not good at expressing my emotions without trying to bottle it. Technically, we've always been friends, even if we are always at each others' throats. But I don't think he will ever see me as anything more than that weird girl who has no people skills.
Right now, I'm a complicated situation where I kinda like this guy in one of my classes I used to hate two years ago. He used to be annoying and overconfident, especially towards me. Now, I've been talking with him again since we have classes together again. He's gotten a little more mature and even lost some weight. Still acts like an idiot at times, so I still call him out on his BS. I tend to be overly mean to him for no reason, probably because I'm not good at expressing my emotions without trying to bottle it. Technically, we've always been friends, even if we are always at each others' throats. But I don't think he will ever see me as anything more than that weird girl who has no people skills.
Your life sounds like a T.V. show.
Though that doesn't mean T.V. is the solution to your problems. Because it would be dumb and irresponsible to think that.
You're right, I guess I'll never know if I don't ask. Well, I've tried being nicer.You know, that kinda reminds me of my situation years ago.
I doubt the bolded part. Technically, you're not yet sure about how he sees you since you didn't state that you asked him about it. You don't know if he sees you as more than a friend or, as you said, a weird girl who has no people (?) skills. If you want him to see you as more than a friend, simply be... less youself. By that, I mean don't be overly mean to him or anything that can turn a guy off, and wait patiently for the outcome.
I currently have a girlfriend, that i feel confused over. I just can't feel any love. And to make things worse, i have met another girl who may seem like the girl of my dreams. And somehow i'm going on a date with her on this Sunday Evening. I would never usually do this, but my current girlfriend pretty much ditched our date to do, god knows what.
What to do. Stay in a loveless relationship or go after the one who is perfect for you. I feel like i'm digging myself into a hole here. I would never cheat on my girlfriend though, so the date won't have any kissing or you know what...
Except some people (and I would contend a lot of people) do believe that's cheating. Just because it doesn't involve any physical intimacy doesn't make it any better. Mate, you're just asking for trouble. The right decision would be to tell your current girlfriend the situation, and sort things out with her first.
Well. I guess you guys are right. Ended up canceling that date. I guess i should probably talk to my ex and sort things out first. I know this wouldn't be fair on her.
Wait... Is she your ex or your girlfriend? In your last post, you called her your girlfriend.
Like seriously, dude, if you want to date someone else, just break it off with whoever you're seeing now.
My eldest sister and her husband started as a long distance couple, so it works for some people. I couldn't do it though.I dated across states.... Long distance doesn't work
so i've got a major crush on someone who shares a lot of my interests, has been one of my closest friends for nigh on 10 years now, and is genuinely really glad whenever i make the effort to see her, and every indication's there that we could have a v. healthy and successful relationship
the problem? about 525 miles and an international border
What? If you want someone to like you and want to date you, they should like you for you. "Be yourself" is the best attitude to take when dating so you can be genuine and find people who will be attracted to you. Otherwise you're just wasting each others' time.You know, that kinda reminds me of my situation years ago.
I doubt the bolded part. Technically, you're not yet sure about how he sees you since you didn't state that you asked him about it. You don't know if he sees you as more than a friend or, as you said, a weird girl who has no people (?) skills. If you want him to see you as more than a friend, simply be... less youself. By that, I mean don't be overly mean to him or anything that can turn a guy off, and wait patiently for the outcome.
You don't believe in love because one girl didn't want to go out with you? Yeah, high school sucks - people are immature and care about stupid stuff. Wait until you graduate and people start maturing. Also, don't take rejection so badly - everybody gets rejected, that's 100% normal, and doesn't mean you'll be Forever Alone.I had a crush on a Cute Girl in my english class and i asked her out after a long time of being scared of her saying no and she said no. And That is why i don't beleive in love.
Girls in my grade seem to like Jocks Mostly and im creative and stuff which isnt like jocks.