Alright so there's this girl (original right?). There have been multiple times when she's said that i'm sexy or that she loves me and when we hang out with our group of friends she is always hugging or pinching me. I was convinced that she liked me but now she's talking about some guy she's pretty much started dating (she hasn't officially said it but it's pretty obvious).
My question is does she have any feelings for me and if so why the other guy? If she doesn't then why do girls feel the need to do this to us guys?
I've had LOADS of girls (and some guys) flirt with me yet not love me. They've done some of the stuff you've mentioned there, and more, but they're just being close, flirty friends. It's not always about them loving you.
However, at the same time, she might like you, and these might be clear signs of her flirting.
She seems to like this guy, so my advice is to be a good friend and support her with when she goes out with this guy. It might be difficult, but you'd rather be a good friend than someone who's going to go against her relationships and ultimately be someone she hates. Spend more time with her to see if it's just her being a close friend to you or if she fancies you. I'm the kind of person who has people flirting with me but as close friends and not as someone they'd date. It might be a case of you being a good friend.
So I'm about to finally get fired from my job that I've been at since 2007.
Long story short, I basically told off my assistant manager because she's a total hypocrite. So she took away all of my hours.
Should I find a new job and quit before they fire me, or let them fire me and be like "BITCHES I'M FREEEEE!!" in her face, to make me feel so much better?
It's going to look incredibly bad if it's discovered that you were fired from your previous job. Try and patch things up at least. Look for a new job, but you don't want to leave your job with your assistant manager, and possibly others at the job, hating you. You might not be bothered if they hate you, but your future employers certainly will.
Okay so this is a new thing.
I need advice for this:
About a year ago I had a rock band. We have since then broken up, due to fighting among the guitarist and bassist, and me and the singer really not taking sides or caring.
At about the start of this Summer, the guitarist started another band with a few inexperienced musicians from our school. I heard them, and they sucked. I didn't say anything though. The guitarist called me today, wanting to try to start a new band with me playing rhythm guitar and singing this time, him playing lead, and the second chair percussionist from our school band (who i'm great friends with) playing drums. We will find a bassist at the place I take music lessons. I wish to have a new band, as I find it very fun, but I don't want to waste more time with another band that could fail for the same reason as the last one.
Any advice?
I think you have to take things less seriously, yet still be devoted. The problem with many bands is that they take things too seriously and end up arguing about the future of the band. It depends on whether you see a future in this band or not. Personally, I'd say if you find it fun and you're with friends, then you should take part, but you should make everyone else realise how you feel about the band.
I need some advice:
New year = New girl. Anyway, I did start to take interest in someone else who is in one of my classes. She looks like a sweet girl. Last Monday, I did sit by her in class, kinda talked about something of my interest, and complimented on how she looked that day by saying, "You look pretty today," and she responded, "Thanks." When the class started, after some of the instructor's words to the class, I told her some funny interpretations of what he said to the class, made her laugh a little. Is her laughing to some of the things I said to her in class a good sign that may lead to a good friendship? I do want to get to know her a little more before even thinking about going out, what should I do? Should I go ahead and get her number the next time I see her in class? Advice please, thanks!
Her laughing is definetely a good sign. One of the things girls tend to look for in a guy is a good sense of humour. It should lead to a good friendship, but I'd suggest talking to her a bit more before you get her number - get to know her a bit more. Get to know more about what she likes, what she does after school, etc. Then you can get her number and invite her out to places, even just as a friend.