The Meddler
Never Forget
I don't even know how I could help you anymore. You're unwilling to take valid advice.
You're telling me what I shouldn't do rather than what I should do.
I don't even know how I could help you anymore. You're unwilling to take valid advice.
What you should do, is not do what you've been doing.You're telling me what I shouldn't do rather than what I should do.
There are plenty on chats with friendly people. This really isn't a reason.Because of the friendly people on xat. ;]
Once again, this is a hobby. As much as it is wrong to stay inside all the time, it is to stay outside all the time. It can get cold, and the inner city is full of, well, crime. When I'm inside, I don't dream of going back outside, this is one of the things I do. I know you think you've got me figured out, but considering just about everything you've said was wrong, you should stop trying to figure other people out and figure yourself out.
There is more to diversity than gender.because like I said, a more diverse commUNITY must have more women.
You're telling me what I shouldn't do rather than what I should do.
Well, just identifying with the symptoms doesn't always mean you do actually have it, but it's a good indicator. If you really think you do have it though, and show any other actions that might be OCD-like (I'd need more context to say if you might have it, but that might be digging to deep into your personal matters), going to someone or seeing someone about it would certainly be a good idea.I suspect I may have a mild case of OCD. I've taken a few tests on the net which basically say that either I have it or I need to be tested further, and I've checked out some of the symptoms. I'll be honest: I show some symptoms of OCD, but not some others, and those others are the clinchers that tell you for sure you have OCD. Myself, I'm no psych major. I have no idea about what I may or may not have. I may have some other similar disorder, and not know it at all; I've only checked out OCD because it's something which has been featured prominently in popular culture at times. I've only confided in a few friends irl about my suspicions, and they think I should tell someone. I'd rather not tell my parents for various personal reasons. My school had a student counselor, and I was going to speak to her until I learnt she left the school a few weeks ago. I'm not a very independent person, so I'd rather not go ahead and take the initiative to do something like book a psychiatrist/psychologist (whichever would be appropriate) appointment. I need to talk to someone who'd understand. Teachers are out of the question - again, for various reasons.
I need some advice, actually. I own a xat called Un*tyUn*ted, a nice community and all of mostly Serebii members, but it seems as if the genders have become...imbalanced. There's more males than females on the xat and since I'm trying to build a robust and diverse community, I felt that there needed to be more women on the xat, so I've taken to trying to advertise through my sig, but is there any other way to even the genders out. (And ladies, feel free to join us on the xat, it's there for your pleasure)
I've taken a few tests on the net which basically say that either I have it or I need to be tested further, and I've checked out some of the symptoms.
So... another question (maybe two?)
I handle stress terribly, because I always cry (and I'm not sure why that is). Like, when it comes to anything. If I just didn't cry, I could handle things so much better.Do I get in an argument? Sometimes I cry even if I'm winning it. The examples could go on and on. Just today my mother was... sort-of helping me (just barely) do stuff to get my learner's permit f for driving, and i know dirt about driving as it is. Since I was confused and wasn't getting help, I started to cry, even though I know it's not that big of a deal.
I feel like this might have to do a bit with my social awkwardness/fear of confrontation as well. I'm just always so afraid of messing up, especially around other people.
I know it'd take time, but... how do I stop crying under stress? Everytime I do it, it makes me feel really pathetic and like a crybaby, but I can't control it. (Not sure what caused/started this exactly)
So... another question (maybe two?)
I handle stress terribly, because I always cry (and I'm not sure why that is). Like, when it comes to anything. If I just didn't cry, I could handle things so much better.Do I get in an argument? Sometimes I cry even if I'm winning it. The examples could go on and on. Just today my mother was... sort-of helping me (just barely) do stuff to get my learner's permit f for driving, and i know dirt about driving as it is. Since I was confused and wasn't getting help, I started to cry, even though I know it's not that big of a deal.
I feel like this might have to do a bit with my social awkwardness/fear of confrontation as well. I'm just always so afraid of messing up, especially around other people.
I know it'd take time, but... how do I stop crying under stress? Everytime I do it, it makes me feel really pathetic and like a crybaby, but I can't control it. (Not sure what caused/started this exactly)
I have a date tomorrow, and i have no idea how to act. Could anyone please provide me With some helpfull advice?
I have a date tomorrow, and i have no idea how to act. Could anyone please provide me With some helpfull advice?
You're telling me what I shouldn't do rather than what I should do.
i throw up or feel like throwing up every time i wake up
my diet is normal
what do