What attracts you to guys/girls?

[GhostAnime]

Well, yeah they're equally bad of course... just in different aspects.

Guys care more about appearance.

Girls care more about security/status.

 

[Bananarama]

Well, yeah they're equally bad of course... just in different aspects.

Guys care more about appearance.

Girls care more about security/status.

I thought it was the other way around.

 

[GhostAnime]

How many men have you seen date a girl because she had a lot of money and status? How many male groupies can you imagine?

Now compare that to the number of "trophy wives" in the world.

 

[Mandi.]

I thought it was the other way around.

Where the hell have you been?

 

[Kiruria]

Both genders are actually pretty bad, though I don't know many girls who would admit it as opposed to guys.

Well, here I am admitting to it. Of course, my tastes in appearances are kind of weird compared to that of many of my peers (e.g. I prefer long-haired and/or nerdy-looking guys as opposed to muscular jock-ish types), but I still never fail to get turned off by bad or even boring appearances. There's even this one guy I don't like to be around because of his body odor, despite how kind and sweet he is. So yes, appearance and especially hygiene is a huge factor for me.

And one difference I like to cite between the genders is that girls tend to pay more attention to their own appearance than guys, and thus they are better at determining things about someone's personality based on their appearance. Looks aren't everything, but often times the way one chooses to show themselves to the world can reflect the way they feel about things. And also, the kind of aura they give off has a habit of affecting how we interpret appearance. That is, someone with a nice personality projects an air of kindness which makes them look a slight bit better than they actually look. Even Mr. B.O. who I mentioned above had an almost handsome air about him when I first met him, which I think reflected the sweet personality he had on the inside.

 

[Nyberg.Brandon]

For me as a girl, obviously boys who bring extra drama into my life are quickly escorted away, I have plenty of that from other people. I don't care about horse handsome you are, I like quirky guys! I want a normal sane person, who has a great personality, who doesn't get weirded out by the fact I ride horses (believe me that's VERY hard to find). I just want to have fun, I need them to understand that my dog and my horse will always be my top priorities and they will come after, I may not get to see them around much, and that I also will probably be much better than them at a lot of video games. XD

Thats fine with me. As long as your a babe.


And Ive been watching Pretty little liars. And right now Toby and Spencer are dateing, and toby looks like he got kicked in the head by a horse.

Ohh and what physical features do girls find attractive. Because even though i feel like my appearance hasn't changed. Girls are coming up to me and saying. "Your so hot now." And im like. "wtf I haven't changed at all!"

 

[GhostAnime]

• Height. Sometimes, it's simply being taller than them if they're incredibly short. If the girl is average height, being taller than six feet is great
• A large body frame or bone structure in addition to height
• Arms. Some like toned arms, some like muscular arms
• Broad or wide shoulders
• A strong, defined jaw-line
• A v-shaped torso. Which typically includes an outward-facing chest, curving down to the waist (your shoulders must be at least noticeably wider than your lower waist)
• Then of course you have abs and pelvic muscles

And that's typically it really as far as the differences between men and women. Of course, you have the universal stuff: smell, clean teeth, eyes, etc.

 

[Pesky Persian]

^That's a pretty stereotypical set of standards you got there.

 

[Nyberg.Brandon]

• Height. Sometimes, it's simply being taller than them if they're incredibly short. If the girl is average height, being taller than six feet is great
• A large body frame or bone structure in addition to height
• Arms. Some like toned arms, some like muscular arms
• Broad or wide shoulders
• A strong, defined jaw-line
• A v-shaped torso. Which typically includes an outward-facing chest, curving down to the waist (your shoulders must be at least noticeably wider than your lower waist)
• Then of course you have abs and pelvic muscles

And that's typically it really as far as the differences between men and women. Of course, you have the universal stuff: smell, clean teeth, eyes, etc.

Since it says "searching for her." under your username. I thhought you were describing a girl. So I was like. What The Flip.......

 

[Jb]

I need them to understand that my dog and my horse will always be my top priorities and they will come after.

You'll be single forever with that outlook. What guy would want a girl(or guy) who demands they accept the fact that they'll always be second to a dog and a horse?

 

[Dragonicwari]

Lately for when I look at girls it's been;

•Confident
•Standard aesthetic stuff
•Can make a joke
•Isn't boring
•Honest

I'm missing something....

Edit; Makes a mean sandwich XD

 

[StarSurgeX]

Mmmmh...... ok what attracts me to Girls/ guys is the eyes and how they are to people and their personality

 

[iFi Salamander]

^That's a pretty stereotypical set of standards you got there.

Really? I found it oddly specific in a vague sort of way if that paradox makes any sense.

 

[lidaboy]

okay since i think of myself as too young for a relationship this would be my theoretical girlfriend im talking about. Most boys my age (14) are way too obsessed with being horny. sorry for being too vulgar. am i the only one who looks for the friend part in a girlfriend? anyway in order of priority:

kind,
looks,
same interests,
smart,
humour,
(same height)

 

[AquaMilotic]

okay since i think of myself as too young for a relationship this would be my theoretical girlfriend im talking about. Most boys my age (14) are way too obsessed with being horny. sorry for being too vulgar. am i the only one who looks for the friend part in a girlfriend? anyway in order of priority:

kind,
looks,
same interests,
smart,
humour,
(same height)

I totally agree, there's more than appearance. I think personality matters more than appearance: kindness, honesty, faithfulness and unselfishness are three things that matter a lot to me.

Of course looks can be nice too, but to me, they're not as important as personality. And besides, when it comes to looks, I'm not talking about chest size, I prefer a cute smile and cute eyes over big breasts. Both big-chested and small-chested girls can look good.

 

[Pesky Persian]

Really? I found it oddly specific in a vague sort of way if that paradox makes any sense.

It was stereotypical on purpose. As in, the kind of things a girl who fawns over Channing Tatum would be after. Those kinds of bodies are the media's current "standard" of male attractiveness.

 

[SimH8]

Ideal features of a woman for me:

• Similar interests (cough cough pokemon)
• Similar taste in music
• Fairly athletic
• Just over average height
• Relaxed
• Offensive sense of humour
• Fairly intelligent
• Kind
• Nice ***, boobs etc
• Honest
• Appreciates need for personal space, yet still is loving
• Good fashion sense (Limited make up)

 

[The Master Chief]

Ideal features of a woman for me:

• Similar interests (cough cough pokemon)
• Similar taste in music
• Fairly athletic
• Just over average height
• Relaxed
• Offensive sense of humour
• Fairly intelligent
• Kind
• Nice ***, boobs etc
• Honest
• Appreciates need for personal space, yet still is loving
• Good fashion sense (Limited make up)

I agree with ya dude. We got similar desires in women.

 

[JD]

I don't know what it is but I find shorter girls with softer voices really attractive. But I guess I'll go into more detail

Shorter than me but not too short
Nice eyes
Nice personality
Smart
Gentle
Physically fit
Younger than me but not by too much

There's definitely some more but I don't feel like listing them.

 

[telos]

I dunno why, but when guys wear button up shirts that fit well with the sleeves rolled up to their elbows
just mmm....
come to my house.