As much as I like it, Pansage doesn't cut it... For me I would have to say Virizion. The powerful and stern Pokemon with a somewhat nice, calm, soothing (Maybe feminine) side. I love the idea of it, I feel that it fits myself the best...
Yeah, I always imagined it being a feminine Pokemon from when I first saw it. That and it's shiny colour is a feminine colour.
I'll admit I have my feminine side too.
Zekrom because im dark and have an electric personality