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Why is ok for guys to have sex but not girls?

Discussion in 'Miscellaneous Discussion' started by MidnightMelody, Jun 12, 2011.

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  1. Hejiru

    Hejiru Rev up those fryers

    I don't know about the rest of it, but the young girls married off to old guys is left over from ancient civilizations, when we were trying to produce as many offspring as possible. In most cultures, women were considered property, and some modern societies haven't grown out of those traditions. But I think as a species we should be able to move past that and give women the same treatment as men.

    As for the "slut" thing, it's just one of those double standards we haven't grown out of. I guess because long ago men had many wives and nobody batted an eye.
     
  2. Crimsonlink

    Crimsonlink Crimson Champion

    Its perfectly fine for girls to have sex as much as males. But remember males have dominated cultures all over the world from the beginning of known history. Why let women do as they please when the males can keep them to themselves but go around and sleep with whoever they wish? Its a horrible double standard that still affects us today. Guys get high fives for laying that hot chick while the chick is known as the **** for sleeping with the guy.


    Heck women didn't have rights till the early 1900s in the U.S. and there isn't much if any rights for women in the middle east, Africa and parts of Asia.

    This is a social stigma that needs to slowly go away. Its not going to happen fast nor will it ever go away completely but it needs to be reduced all over the world.
     
  3. manaphy72

    manaphy72 Well-Known Member

    see i believe in sex after marriage. but some people 'think' or even know that they are in love. but you do have a point. i think it means that guys have enough B**** to do it. and i think its wrong. also if a girl does it, it means there s***** . NO. also if someone calls you that its that there jealous that you had it before them
     
  4. Willow's Tara

    Willow's Tara The Bewitched

    Weez- I believe it is the responsibility of a guy to actually be there if he gets the woman pregnant, if he doesn't then he's an a.h unless he has an legit reason (Which is few, but includes such as shifted off the army or doesn't even know he got her pregnant in the first place), so no getting a girl pregnant and running off is not a get out of free card. The girl only got pregnant because the both of them forgot the condoms or birth pills, and a girl can only get pregnant if a guy does it.

    And by your logic I guess the only way a girl cannot be a sl-ut or a wh-re is if she's a lesbian because well they can't get pregnant of course or doesn't have sex.

    It is double standards and shouldn't be this way. Girls can have much sex as men can have and people need to realize this is the 21st century. People have sex before marriage, and there is nothing wrong with that.
     
  5. 8-bit

    8-bit |3

    Because outdated gender BS, and society is slow to change even when it realizes it's doing something stupid. I personally am seeing less and less of it and look forward to a slightly less ridiculous future for it.
     
  6. Sweep Freak

    Sweep Freak 10char

    It's because guys think it's awesome to have sex, but most girls find it diguisting.

    A guy would think it was great for BOTH of you, but a girl would think it's diguisting for BOTH of you.
     
  7. Hejiru

    Hejiru Rev up those fryers

    You haven't met many girls, have you?
     
  8. Jb

    Jb Tsun in the streets

    But its kind of weird.

    Most men I know would not want to sleep with a woman who goes around sleeping with a bunch of differnt guys.

    On the other, I've asked woman the same thing and mostly got something along the lines of...

    Woman- Well if I loved him enough I dont see what the problem is, im sure to be his last and only.

    Woman who going around having sex with a bunch of differnt dudes will forever be label as a wh^re as long as the mojority of them think like this.


    Most guys don't want a mega used woman.

    Man 1: "Yo! That bi/ch a ho3."
    Man 2: "Fuk dat, I anit hittin dat!"

    Most woman dont care, as long as they think the 'love' is there, they overlook the fact.

    Woman 1: "You know the guy you're dating is just a playa, right?"

    Woman 2: "But that was in the in past, he's changed now, he really loves me."


    Woman need to stop accepting all these "pimps" and "playas" and call them out on their sh/t. That way men would not think they can get over.
     
  9. Ethan

    Ethan Banned

    I don't think the assumption of the OP is necessarily true. Women that don't have sex at all are seen as prudes that don't "put out" but women that have sex too often are seen as "easy." Society doesn't expect women to be pure as many of you are incorrectly assuming, but to actually walk a tight line of sexuality.
     
  10. Pesky Persian

    Pesky Persian Caffeine Queen

    This was what I was thinking too. The social standards for female sexuality are kind of strict. I have to say I don't have much respect for other women who will hop into bed with anything that has a penis and a heartbeat, but I also don't have much respect who flaunt their "purity" as if they're better than other women (and yes, I have met such people). I feel like the social constructs aren't going to loosen up until people start having more respect for themselves and more respect for their sexual partners. A person's sex life should be between that person and his/her partner and no one should be judging another person based on their sex life, especially if they have no interest in having a relationship with said person. Unfortunately, I feel like maturity on this subject is growing at such a slow pace in today's society that these stereotypes are going to linger for far longer than they should.
     
  11. Shuam

    Shuam righteous

    girls are whores and guys are players and we like bud light
     
  12. TikkiNippets

    TikkiNippets PokeMom

    Its sad thats how it is. in my beliefs sex is wrong before marriage whether your a man or a woman. but I would never call anyone names for doing it. not everyone has the same beliefs and we need to learn to be accepting and loving of others.
     
  13. Drdj11

    Drdj11 Eins,Zwei,Drei

    wait a second wait a second..... I thought serebii said we couldn't talk about this stuff?
     
  14. Grovyl

    Grovyl Who dun dug diglett?

    Haha, that's what my brother told my sister.
    And, I don't think people will call girls ****s for having sex before marriage, only if they have sex with many people. That's all I have to say.
     
  15. kochoupink

    kochoupink butts lol

    [img139]http://i49.photobucket.com/albums/f288/kirakiramariposa/Picture8.png[/img139]
    Honestly a quote wasn't enough to capture everything that's hilarious about this post.

    I was about to type out a long response to the OP but in the modern day, it's really just that this is one of the last holdouts men really have over women. In an age when communication and cooperation are finally more important than whacking at things with large sticks, women finally are beating men at their own game. Social constructs are the only way men can maintain the traditional power over women that they used to enjoy simply by virtue of being bigger and stronger.
     
  16. intergalactic platypus

    intergalactic platypus Only rescues maidens

    One of these things is not like the other...
     
  17. Pesky Persian

    Pesky Persian Caffeine Queen

    I know I contradicted myself. I was just being honest. Just because I'm a hypocrite on this particular subject doesn't mean I can't see how things should be.
     
  18. ParaChomp

    ParaChomp be your own guru

    The question that's being asked isn't true. Females are objectified more than males in society which is most likely the reason it seems that way. Also, I hate it when people say "guys and girls" when it's "girls and boys".
     
  19. Pesky Persian

    Pesky Persian Caffeine Queen

    I hate it when people say "boys and girls" when it should be "men and women."
     
  20. ParaChomp

    ParaChomp be your own guru

    In this case, yes. You know what, we should just all use male and female, it things so much easier.
     
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