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MistyMayDawn

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Today I was playing SSBB with my brother and so he kept saying Pokemon sucks and so he told me to go die in a hole and he told me that Im an annpying b***h and that nobody will ever accept me......

Can anybody else relate? I feel terrible.....
 
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I guess I can relate. I mean nobody has every told me that, but still, my parents really hate pokemon. They always say, Why do you like that? You shouldn't watch that. >.< They've said worse, but they really make me mad.
 
I'm assuming you're an orphan since you didn't seem to tell your parents... >.> If your brother says to die in a hole, go tell your parents. Simplest and most rewarding form of payback. :P
 
Yeah but he's autistic so they never really do anything....
 
And he doesnt like to listen to our parents...
 
MistyMayDawn said:
Today I was playing SSBB with my brother and so he kept saying Pokemon sucks and so he told me to go die in a hole and he told me that Im an annpying b***h and that nobody will ever accept me......

Can anybody else relate? I feel terrible.....
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You shouldn't let him get to you like that. What he said, they're just words. You said you were playing SSBB with him at the time? Were you using a Pokemon character and beating him? That would probably explain it. It's not uncommon for people to say things they don't actually mean out of frustration.
 
He's just a sibling, he wiuldn't really mean it.
 
I can relate to this. My brother did this all the time to me growing up (kept telling me things like "you have no life", or "You'll never be good enough"),and half the time my parents didn't really know what to do about him. The best I can offer is if you ever need someone to talk to about this, or anything, really, feel free to shoot me a VM.
 
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Yeah but he's autistic so they never really do anything....
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Tell your parent just because he has autism isn't an excuse for him to tell you that you're an annoying b***h and that nobody will ever accept you.

Tell your parent that by not punishing him he isn't learning right from wrong and that they are failing as a parent.

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And he doesnt like to listen to our parents...
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I am not surprised since your parent failed to discipline him and letting him use his autism as an excused for his behaviour.

You really need to tell your parent that they are failing as a parent and that their failure is being to affect your well-being.

Having autism should never been an excuse for bad behaviour.
 
This is gonna get closed, but oh well, my two cents before it does.

I agree with everything everyone else has said, but to add to it... with all due respect, you need to grow a thicker skin. Autism is kind of a different matter in itself, but even brushing aside the fact that you do not say something like that to someone no matter what malfunction you're branded with, you should probably work on letting petty insults like that slide off more easily. It doesn't seem petty when you're the one experiencing it, but when all is said and done, it is petty. Partially because it's coming from your brother, and partially because it sounds like he was just trying to annoy you enough to give himself an advantage... or was a sore loser/winner, I guess.

Obviously it doesn't happen overnight, and it takes a lot of conscious effort and growth, but... food for thought, anyway.
 
My brother doesn't say things like that, but I still have to agree with what others have said above; tell your parents. They will probably have a talk with him in his room about it. That's what my parents usually do, but we'd be dead if anybody called anybody a b*tch, so...but anyways, if talking to your oarents don't work, confront your brother and ask him why the hell did he say something like that. You can figure it out from there, right?

P.S. You have SSBB? Lucky...
 
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This is gonna get closed, but oh well, my two cents before it does.

I agree with everything everyone else has said, but to add to it... with all due respect, you need to grow a thicker skin. Autism is kind of a different matter in itself, but even brushing aside the fact that you do not say something like that to someone no matter what malfunction you're branded with, you should probably work on letting petty insults like that slide off more easily. It doesn't seem petty when you're the one experiencing it, but when all is said and done, it is petty. Partially because it's coming from your brother, and partially because it sounds like he was just trying to annoy you enough to give himself an advantage... or was a sore loser/winner, I guess.

Obviously it doesn't happen overnight, and it takes a lot of conscious effort and growth, but... food for thought, anyway.
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It has nothing to with growing a "thicker skin."

MistyMayDawn is entitled not to be called an annoying b***h and that nobody will ever accept her, especially when she did nothing wrong.

Her brother is being a jerk and needs to learn discipline and respecting other people, something that her parent failed to do.

Having autism or being a sore looser is not an excuse at all.
 
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